Accountability in Music • Page 1023

Yea I'll tell you the appropriate venue size for them

Zero!

 

The only appropriate venue Jesse Lacey deserves to be in is a fucking jail cell

 

Wait what

 

wait, how did i not hear about this. i recall thinking how i hadn't seen him in any of the band's social posts anymore but i don't remember seeing TDS post about him being removed

 

I don’t think it ever made it outside of this site. He posted about it in one of the Dangerous Summer threads.

 

No, of course not. I guess the vibe here is much different than other online spaces I use. I never know when to respond to something or when to just like a comment and move on. (Maybe I shouldn’t even respond to you about this.) I thought I was just being polite, but I see how it would come across as unnecessary to the discussion.

 

Yeah this was in the Fall of 2022 I think. They were doing a headlining tour for Coming Home and then they randomly dropped off the tour with no explanation. Their drummer then made a public statement that he wants nothing to do with the band anymore. Then shortly after the band announced that Matt was amicably splitting from the band and then their drummer returned. It was a head scratcher to everyone until Sam came on here and was posting that basically Matt got caught slipping pills into a couple of women's drinks at one of the show's after parties. Not sure if he was arrested or not.

I think I remembered all those details correctly. The crazy thing is TDS had (and still do) this VIP package for all their shows called the Drinkers Club where fans can drink and party with the band after the show......now knowing that their former member was a creep that really isnt a good look. Can't believe they still do it.

 

He's still playing guitar for the dude from American Pie, so he still has the same access

 

I found the post where SA is mentioned but of course he still loves him.

The Dangerous Summer - Coming Home (2022) • Page 30 • forum.chorus.fm

Seems it was a Reddit thread where people were talking about the specifics (drugging women).

 

I don’t think the band ever commented on it. Sam said Matt was drugging women and was found out. Initially the band was just going to send Matt home and continue the tour, but the other bands said “fuck that” and that’s how TDS got kicked off their own headline tour. Allegedly.

 

This is not meant to be a humblebrag in any way because I know they have some records that mean a lot to some folks, but I'm kind of glad I was late to that train because it seemed like it was never not something with those guys and it was enough to turn me off from the get-go.

 

Yeah too late for that..

 

Charlotte just cancelled their FastPass access to that show. Wouldn't be surprised if the venue changed next

 

“done with antisemitism” is a strange thing to say 7 days after you released a song and music video for a song titled “Heil Hitler.” Which I highly doubt he’s taken down from his socials.

 

it’s who he was at the time. You are going to judge someone for an action they took A WEEK AGO?

(I hate to say this to ruin the joke but this is a joke, please in no way think I’m standing up for Kanye west in any capacity omg)

 

There are so many things wrong with this BN tour and this is the least of them, but wouldn’t you want to go kinda conservative with the booking? Like test the waters a little more before going full on? Just seems so insane how much of a shit show that tour is

 

Kinda reads as being insulated and surrounded by yes ppl. Makes sense that if you’re in the situation they’ve chosen to be in, you’ve probably already gotten rid of the folks who are going to challenge and be real with you.

 

he's going to rehab so they can get the Nazi out of his system

 

Yeah I deleted that post. They’ve been a shithead in here before.