Zech Pluister of Sleep on It Accused of Misconduct

god damn, it's someone in every fucking band these days

 

In most instances, it likely always was.

 

The first post kinda seems personal. The STI thing is dangerous. But at what point after having video proof testing positive for multiple STIs do you just walk away already. He cried to keep you and was gaslighting. Assuming Everytime he cheated it was consensual the first post seems like something that should be handled privately. The second about Ryan well that is something everyone in the scene needs to be aware of.

 

What!??? A guy in a rock band cheated?? This can’t be!

 

Yeah, the victim shaming shit can get lost right now.

 

This isn't how living with abuse works. People who are being lied to and gaslit don't stay because they're weak or stupid. Come on.

This kind of cheating is abuse. Keep this take.

 

No thank you. You can spin it how you want to. Obviously the guy is a scumbag. Most of us have experienced shitty relationships like this one. That’s life, sorry.

 

I'm sorry you've resigned yourself to that. Some folks are willing to fight for better. Be blessed.

 

Go for it. You as well.

 

Unsurprised that the one who thought BLM wasn’t remotely political also has other shitty takes. Fuck this band, fuck their attempt at a statement.

 

It’ll be okay. Hang in there.

 

Stoked for their next EP.

 

One has to try to be these dense.

 

Imagine being almost 30 and thinking this is cool.

 

Sounds like a grade A piece of shit to me. Maybe being in a band would make me an asshole too, but I'd like to think not.

 

Man, this Katie character fucking suuuucks

 

Not only is it most likely false, that's also your typical "Hey, but I can be a victim too!" take.

Please don't be like that.

 

Don’t send me some bullshit warning that this is about sexual assault. It’s not. The fucking guy is a chronic cheater and a manipulator. Yes, he’s an asshole. But it wasn’t sexual assault, so don’t act like I’m advocating for it.

 

You’re right, I think this is sooooo cool man.

 

This kind of cheating is abuse.

Dunno what you're advocating for, all I see are a bunch of your dumb ass posts in this thread.

 

I just can’t think of any other reasoning to be the way you are, with this amount of effort.

 

Seems like you’re the dumb ass. Okay, it’s abuse. But again, it’s not sexual assault. Two different things.

 

The only person in this entire thread that has used the words "sexual assault" is you.

 

Does anyone else hear the "Curb Your Enthusiasm" music start to play when someone moves the goalposts like this, or is that just me?