This is an extremely fair question that my therapist asks me all the time lol. I feel responsible for him because we’re very close. He moved across the country to New Hampshire with an abusive friend who isolated and terrorized him. When he moved home, he moved in with me and it took him a long time to get back on a good path. He’s still recovering from that and I feel like any time he feels any kind of stagnancy he panics that it’s happening again, so I feel like I have to steer him. I just don’t want him to make rash decisions based only on money and end up in a situation he hates more. Edit: also for context my entire life has been messed up and I basically raised him and my younger sister until I was 15 so I feel like his actual parent.