Vent Your Frustrations • Page 36

People who are always late drive me nuts. I think it is straight up rude to tell someone you'll be somewhere and then show up hours later. It makes me feel like my time isn't important to them at all. If something actually comes up and you have a valid reason to be late, that's fine. But when you do it all the damn time, you annoy me. I'm always early to everything and being late stresses me out!!

 

yeah late people are the worst, especially because there's always excuses and it just becomes the norm, oh so and so is always late

 

It really irritates me when they are driving so you are relying on them to be somewhere at a certain time so they make you late, too. Not good for my anxiety!

 

the worst kind of person is the person who leaves late so of course they are speeding and driving reckless and getting mad at safe drivers.

 

I have a friend who no lie does that all the time! Doesn't even tell me she's running late. Example: I'll pick you up at 5... 5:30 I ask if she's on the way, hasn't left her house yet. Or it'll be that but we will meet up somewhere.

 

Most ppl I know seem to be like that. I've started telling them earlier times or just taking my time getting ready knowing they'll be late. It is super disrespectful. Like their time is worth more than others. I don't think they literally think that as they're running late, but I feel that has to be in the mindset cause idk how you can constantly leave others waiting like that.

 

When that friend of mine is actually on time, I'm surprised. I always anticipate her being hours late because 95% of the time she is.

 

Yup my friend is the same way. And it really irritated me when I used to work midnights. So I would get off work at 7 and she would tell me she's picking me up at like 11. So I would get not a lot of sleep, be up and ready by 11 and she doesn't show up until 1

 

Another thing my friend does is decided to do other things beforehand when she knows we had something planned at a certain time. Like one time we were suppose to carpool for this event (that we had tickets for which were $20) she picks me up, run these errands, still wants to get ready, then has to drive 45 minutes a few towns over to pick up another friend she promised a ride to, then drive all the way back for us to not even make the event. I was pissed. I was super tight with money at that time and really depressed because of it and other things. If I would have known that would have happened I probably would have ended up going to a party with this guy I REALLY liked at the time or even hanging out with him having a movie night or something. Even back in hs she would do shit like that. Say she pick me up at a certain time only for her to be 2 hours late because she had to give rides to other people and after she pick me up she had to give more rides. We were never on time for anything

 

I wanted to go to palm springs to visit family and get away from the rain and just the general sad vibes in Fresno.

I come over and everything is disapppinting and all my family is fighting. Welp welp.

 

EWC lied to me, or at least the girl that called me from there. She told me she has to switch me specialist because the one I'm schedule with was no longer with the company. Guess what? The girl that supposedly "left the company" took another client at the same time I was scheduled! Wtf!? I feel cheated. Like because my reg girl is out they feel they can just toss me around to different people like it's not a problem. It is a problem. Going to have to make another complaint.

Edit: makes me wonder if she lied about my reg girl being out longer too. If I find out that happens I'm reporting her specifically.

 

My neighbor is a piece of shit. I don't really have a driveway to park in so I use street parking right in front of my house. There is a spot where two cars can perfectly fit legally but because they don't like my step dad, they don't want us parking there. My car and their car were fitting perfectly fine, I left for 10 minutes down the street and when I came back THEIR FUCKING CAR WAS IN THE MIDDLE OF THE TWO SPOTS

To make it worse, they don't even need street parking. They have a gigantic driveway they don't even use just to spite us.

 

I knew my rm had spent the night at her bf's so I wasn't in a hurry to get up and battle for the bathroom to shower but then she came home to get ready and has taken over the bathroom noooooo

 

I forgot my debit card today.

 

I honestly can't with my rm's dogs. I think one has separation anxiety and I tried to look up solutions and they're not working and I'm done. On Saturday they went on the floor 3 times. Today they've gone twice. And they're being let out. I see and hear my rm take them out often. She can take them out forever and physically see them go and they do it again on the floor not long after. I know she's confused too and seems to be trying but I can't keep doing it. They always do it in the kitchen so some days I can't get my dinner and other days I'm like trapped in my room with the horrible smell wafting everywhere until she can come home and clean it up. I save so much money living with her but I'm wondering if my mental health is even worth it. Idk what's going on with the dogs but they were never this bad before and it has escalated. I'm guessing it's cause she recently moved back in (again) and they're super confused but I'm sry that's not my problem

 

Working with someone who doesn't know what they're doing. Again. I swear my work doesn't try to hire anyone for my shift and I have to reply on people from the agency. All the new hires are mostly on first shift when they already have people.

Also unrelated to this thread but the GM called me in regards to my complaint and I have so much anxiety about returning the call. I'm really not one to complain unless I feel it's necessary and I rather not talk on the phone over it

 

Men. Men frustrate me to no end. So many of them don't have a filter and it bothers me. They treat me disrespectful merely because they perceive me aa something to be desired. They forget the human element and they act as if they are entitled to talk to me in any way that they so please. It gets amplified on the Internet for me, with a constant barrage of dick pics, or so it seems. I wish to be treated with respect and as a human being but so often they just don't seem to want to give that. I especially get disrespect from them as a lesbian, with their constant attempts to tell me how they would be able to "convert" me if they got the chance. It's both maddening and disheartening to think that these people only view me as that. I could go on and on about this, I might even go into detail about specific instances that frustrate me as they happen. I hope they become less frequent as time goes on but it seems a constant flow.

 

I thought these would be funny airing of grievances on this thread. Just whinging here.

 

You kow you are a shut-in, hermit, fucking loser when you go out for one evening and your family thinks you're fucking missing. A real eye-opener to how tragic my life has become (or always been). I wish I could fucking make friends but I cant.

P.S. shut up, Schooner!

 

I've said before that I'm in the wrong English class in college and today was the final nail on the coffin. One of the students in my class needed to have what a sentence and comma are explained to him.

 

we are doing a big sale on some produce at my store. I come in tonight to find out that we don't have the 4 major items that we are selling.

I have customers getting upset with me when I have literally nothing to do with the ordering.

 

Edit: ok I deleted it but only cause I'm being ridiculous not because I was wrong!!! Let it be knoooown

 

There is a stink bug somewhere in my room and it is freaking me out!! I HATE bugs. Last night right when I was about to fall asleep a stink bug comes flying outta nowhere and lands IN MY BED. NOOOOOPE!!! I tried to find it but couldn't so went and slept on the couch bc I am not having it crawl on me in my sleep!! So tonight, turned my lamp on hoping the light would attract it if it was still in there. Had it on for like an hour, nothing. Getting ready to go to sleep and here comes that fucking stink bug again!!! Still can't find it and yet again sleeping on the couch ugh!! Fuck bugs so much. I just want to be able to catch it and get rid of it so I can sleep in peace!!

 

I have become so lazy. Today I worked and then studied for my sign language class and then did homework and now I'll do my Spanish before going to bed. I'm whining internally because I didn't get enough winding down time, but then I'm like... am I really whining because I had a productive day? Is it really better to zone out at my laptop all day than to do actual productive things??

 

my work has made me close due to our manager being gone so I don't mind because hours.

HOWEVER it's also been super frustrating and I'm getting annoyed by it.

I think the worst thing is how mad people get when we don't have fresh produce like daily. I get it, fresh produce is always nice but like we can't afford to constantly be bringing in fresh produce just for that one person. I've had people get angry at me like I had any say in it.