(Reasons we're not having) Sex (and WoW) Thread NSFW • Page 144

It's definitely an interesting area to navigate. There's a lot of trust involved. Like, I'm way into that shit but I also have a very tender/sensitive side so I'll find myself like slapping a girl and then immediately asking if they are ok and saying I'm sorry haha. With my last ex there was one time where she wanted me to slap her face and she just kept saying "harder" to the point where I actually left somewhat of a gnarly bruise on her cheek. She was into it but ehhhh, it felt lowkey wrong. In my experience it becomes easier as the relationship goes on. And the aftercare is super important.

 

I want to join in on this conversation so badly but alas too shy

 

If you feel up to at some point you should join in! All are welcome here

 

The appealing part of BDSM isn't the ability to do whatever you want to do to your partner, it's them trusting you. The most important part of that kind of relationship is trust and consent, not control.

 

Ya sorry, was quoting the way she phrased it. I understand the trust aspects.

 

I love it except for the mess it leaves behind

 

I agree with the mess, my fiance does and every time we get frisky I sleep onow the wet spot...

 

This sounds like it should be a good thing and something super sensual but it's really not lol

 

To an extent it is. Depends on how interesting we are feeling.

 

I shouldn't have come in here today

 

There's always tomorrow

 

Oh my god

I. Just. Had. Sex!!!
Finallly

 

nice

 

I'm happy

 

Sexting at work first thing this morning. My little act of rebellion for the day.

 

I'm not a real person before like 11AM so morning sex will never ever happen for me

 

I feel gross in the morning. My hair is sticking up everywhere, I wanna brush my teeth and wash my face... I probably have like dried drool on me and remnants of mascara on my face lmao.

 

I'm not a real person until 7pm, then I'm asleep by 11pm.

 

Are we human, or are we dancer?

 

Yesterday I got a text from that coworker who I was having sex with at 2am asking if I wanted to come over and bang. I had to be up and driving to L.A. by 5am so naturally I did the responsible thing and I went over and we had sex one last time. That was cool. The drive was exhausting though.

 

Why would she text you WHILE you're having sex with her? Seems rude.

 

Gives a new meaning to 'sexting', don't ya think?