(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 799

You’re lucky I didn’t see this for a while

 

Tbh I think you would trade me for a vegan gluten free pizza pocket

 

Whatever that might be

 

Aaaaaaaaaaaand... curved.

 

Fuck todayyy

 

I am still sad about the last talk even though I shouldn't which is a bummer.

 

Jon I really think it would be good practice of character for you to still talk to her (doesn't have to be 24/7) and friendly to her. She's a good person right? Sounds like it. It would be hard for me in your shoes to still act like friends but I really really think it would have a positive effect on you. Shutting her out can only be negative.

 

IT IS HARD TO SHUT HER OUT

WE WORK TOGETHER

 

Sure, so it's obviously a shitty choice to make to not talk to her anymore. Cause then you do that and you are showing her a hand of cards you do not want to be showing. Relationships and dating are all about timing. We as human are so self centered that we are only worried about OUR time and no one elses. Being a part of her life still can help tremendously down the road, and worst case scenario, you have a good friend in the end.

 

I love Relationship Advice Dan

 

I’m single as all fuck too. Blah

 

thank you oh wise one.

I'll probably hang around but I won't get super involved anymore.

 

Jon I don’t view myself as anyone special with this deal. I do have a job where I talk to people about relationships alot though. Its easy to look at other peoples situations and assess. But my own? No way. I was blind to the truth with my last relationship.

 

Being semi-involved is the way to go!

 

Mannnnnn I get a text from my friend about his wedding date which I am a groomsman in, and next text this girl curves me.

Starting out 2018 strong.

 

Curve's you is...... good?

 

I agree with Dan on this. And, for what it's worth, I'll be going through something (potentially) similar of just being a friend of someone I think of as potentially more than that. But she's such a good person and energy that friendship is better than nothing.

 

Curve is bad, meaning be denied

 

Well the only reason I asked was because the first thing sounded like it was a good thing? I guess

 

pretty R.A.D.

 

I still want the title as dating and relationships suck tho

 

For what it's worth. My wife and I were strictly friends for a good 10 or so months before we started hooking up/dating. We were good friends who hung out with each other quite a bit with no feelings involved on either side and then all of a sudden, bam, stuff started happening and next thing we knew we were inseparable.

So, you never know where friendships will end up.

 

Dan, you should know what thread you are in and there is context clues in the juxtaposition of my post.

 

first of all I say lol all the time so now I feel VERY JUDGED thanks guys

second, I hung out with my ex boyfriends (we've been broken up for a year and a half now, and dated for 5+ years, some of you may remember) best friend today. We ended up talking about back then and I found out so much shit that I never knew that makes so much sense now. It was infuriating to find some stuff out but ultimately, I realized that I had actually forgotten completely about a girl that had been a huge source of contention at the end of our relationship. Realizing that I couldn't even remember her name, because I couldn't even care less at all anymore. It was so jarring to realize that someone who had once caused me so much pain and strife, and now I didn't even remember her existence.
to be cheesy, it's a nice reminder that pain is temporary blah blah blah