(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 558

I had a co worker whose husband would constantly text her. I told her she's not allowed to have her phone on the floor, but because she has a baby she thought she was above the policy (her child was her excuse). I explained to her, her husband would have to call the facility in an emergency, but the texts weren't even emergency related, he was just a new dad that basically didn't know how to take care of a child I guess, so he would ask her a bunch of questions. She shortly after quit, which was probably for the best for her at the time. My thought was, if he's that afraid of being alone with the child, to the point he has to text you constant when you're AT WORK, don't go back to work right away.

 

Men can be so possessive, I know this isn't brand new information

 

Yeah. My ex used to do that at my old job. My breaks weren't always at the same time. It depended on which position you were that day and they usually changed it up between 4 different positions all the time. He'd get so mad when he'd call and I didn't answer, and randomly start freaking out about how my boss was breaking labor laws and I'm like lol chill no they're not. Never again!

 

Anyway, the guy I've been seeing has potential to be promising, and in many ways is a good match for me, as it appears we both look for the same important things in our futures. We both went to the same university, but studied different subjects and it makes me wonder if we ever passed by each other. We've only been hanging out for about a month, and so far he still wants to see me. Usually I get ghosted after the first "date" despite the fact that guys tell me they want to hangout again. I still get a lot of anxiety that he will get tired of me or whatever and I'll be back to square one.

 

I hate talking on the phone so much. I do it all day at work and it's the last thing I want to do when I'm free. Send me a text so I can respond when I need to or better yet just don't even contact me at all. Even if you're in trouble or it's an emergency, there's got to be at least 10 other people you can call instead of me

 

I agree with this and appreciate that by the end you went from millennial to Ron Swanson

 

My boss calls me Costanza, but Ron Swanson works too

 

If you call me / leave a voicemail someone better be in the hospital or someone's about to be in the hospital

 

I knew a guy kinda like that. Our days off we're different and he'd always text me on my days off when he's working, which got annoying because there was nothing to talk about and he should be working instead of being lazy and on his phone. He would get mad when he text me when he's off and I was working but didn't answer. Like dude, I'm working and it's super busy. He also very well knew how things we're at work, yet for some reason he thought I'd drop everything and respond to him instead of doing my job. smh

 

The woman I've been seeing and I will really only text each other a bad joke on our lunch breaks or to organize when we can meet next. Today's joke from her:


How does NASA organize a party?







They planet





I finally went in for the kiss last weekend though and yesterday we went and got breakfast and took her dog on a walk while we talked about bad date stories.

Trivia tomorrow night and we are Slug Club

 

so much for the tolerant left

 

Millennials are ruining the phone call industry

 

I make like 2 phone calls a month, and they're to my work. I probably wont even answer my phone if you try calling me, oops.

 

uh no it's the one industry we aren't killing somehow

Millennials LOVE their smartphones: Deal with it

 

I fucking hate those headlines btw

 

I was finally watching master of none season 2 and the episode on first dates was so real that I got emotional

 

Ohhh shittt, I still need to watch the second season.

 

show is so good that I watched five episodes at like midnight

 

Yeah, I hate talking on the phone. Stresses me out really bad. I delegated one of my friends to call and make reservations at bars for my best friend's bachelor party.

 

nowadays it would be text me tweet me if you want to reach me
RT if you agree

 

me watching master of none season 2 made me once again realize dating sucks

but I'm also the worst for missing that adorable feeling

 

The other day I had to put my number down for something and I blanked for like fifteen minutes trying to remember what my number is because I never use my phone / call myself.

 

Also had a totally mind blowing realization today that getting married after knowing the person for like 1-2 years would be like deciding after having a job you like for 1-2 years that THAT'S THE ONLY JOB YOU'LL EVER HAVE THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.

I could probably have the same job for 20+ years and if someone said "okay this is it" I'd still panic and retreat because I couldn't handle the responsibility and knowing all other options were lost.