(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 424

^^^ That's not a "no." ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

Hey so what some general guidelines for texting someone after you get their number? Wait a little while?

 

you should text her if you're thinking about it. There aren't any hard and fast rules about it. I never got the whole wait 3 days thing or whatever

 

Text them a few hours later "so they have your number" and if they make conversation go with it, if not give them a couple days

 

Well last night at the venue we exchanged numbers with the plan to meet up sometime later during the show. That didn't happen but she was texting me AT the venue saying she was super stoked to have met me. I was drunk and she was on molly tho. And then after she texted me wishing me safe travels home.

 

A particular ex which was one of my best relationships added me on social media. I'm reading wayyyyy into this. What does it all meannnnn?

 

Wants dat booty

 

No she dosent wang me to cuck the husband. She never wants me to meet the husband

 

Yeah man, text her.

 

She doesn't "wang" you? There's something sumbliminal going on here. :p

For real though, I dunno man. Sounds like a pretty wonky situation.

 

Yeah don't be the shit head home wrecker.

 

She's cheat on him before with me. So..... and I meant want not wang I wasn't paying attention I'm on my cell phone

 

He knows about the past situations but has no clue what's going on now. If he did he would go into total controlling asshole mode and never let her hang out with me

 

The plot thickens. If she's cheated already then I dunno, it's basically over, she should end it. But literally the only innocent person here is her husband.

Not trying to make you feel shitty but, it's just a garbage situation. Why hasn't she ended it?

 

I mean... tbh if I was married to a girl and she kept hanging out with a dude she cheated on me with in the past, I would frown upon it too. I think it's just basic human instinct.

 

Like I said it's complicated and she hasn't cheated on him with me in like 3 years after she got engaged I stopped being the way I was with her. And these feelings are new for her and they weren't there 3 years ago. Anything is possible but knowing her she with stay loyal and faithful and I'll end up getting hurt again like I always do

 

We have a very complicated friendship/relationship. But in the end no matter what goes on with us we always end up back to talking

 

You quoted me before I made the edit, but why hasn't she ended things with him? Or l, has she at least talked about ending it?

 

She has everything to lose and nothing to gain. I have nothing to lose and everything to gain. And I don't think she's ready to take that risk with how fucked up it can get between us with all the bullshit we cause each other

 

You might end up hurt in the end like you said, but what did you expect for having a situation like the one you are in with a married woman? Sorry if that comes off as rude, but I don't understand the situation I guess.

 

I explained it a few pages back.

 

Also I'm not in the most stable of living conditions cuz of a few bad choices I made years ago that I'm still paying for. If I had my own place I think the situation would change

 

Probably because she enjoys having a side thing for fun, an ego boost, and the feeling that she's being competed for by multiple men. Cynical, yes, but I've most definitely seen similar situations.

 

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