(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 423

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Hmm. It takes a lot to be comfortable enough to profess your love for a married woman, and even more for her to profess her love to you. Feel free to open up about this as much as you see fit. I find this interesting.

 

weve know each other for 5 plus years it will be 6 years in september. we met at school dated for like a month then she got back with her ex. weve been through hell and back as friends and stopped talking for months but always end up coming back to each other. then just over a year ago she just ups and stops talking to me with no reason. we had a fight but nothing friendship ruining worthy. then around april she texted me wishing me a happy birthday and we started talking again and i asked her why she stopped talking to me. she told me she finally got the feelings i had for here. shes always been the one that got away. last year was a rough year for the friendship. then in november i got into a relationship and she started talking to me more. then we hung out a few times while i was daiting this other chick just as friends. then me and the girl broke up a few weeks ago and the feelings i had for the married girl came bakc out of nowhere. its a much more complicated story then this but this is the just of it

 

I'm seeing someone new that I like a lot. We met last Saturday and went out again on Wednesday. Seeing her again on Sunday. I was kind of apprehensive about using Tinder after reading through this thread the last year but I've had pretty decent luck meeting new people with it over the last month.

 

Just spoke with my grandmother. She said she's fine with me marrying a girl of any other religion as long as she's not from Aceh where the Islamists are here.

 

It's been maybe a month since I've been out with anyone. mostly because money is very low

 

I chatted up this guy I always think is cute. He's dating someone so i would never go there but im a loser so it was nice to finally talk to him in a non-awkward way so he knows I exist in some capacity. Our only other former conversation was me making a terribly unfunny ice breaker joke back in August. This is my nonexistent love life.

 

Ok I'm very drunk and at w rave rn but I just bought a girl a drink for the first time in my life and she likes Fleet Foxes and Simon and Garfunkel. Make sure I don't marry her

 

I've been interested in a co-worker at my work and today was her last day and I'm super bummed.

we would hang out all the time during breaks or lunch so it was great to get to know each other. I gave her my number so hopefully we can continue talking.

She's also been telling me how another co-worker has been trying to ask her out on a date constantly and I'm just like thinking face emoji about it.

 

You ain't got nothin to lose now

 

so the married chick is more crazy about me and more in love with me then i originally thought

 

So waddup w her husband

 

idk she tells me everything between them is good but idk its a very confusing complicated situation. at the end of the day tho she will always choose him over me

 

It's clearly not good. Or she's just a little bored. I need to find the article but I remember reading this great article about when you're in love but you fantasize about other people. It's very normal but it really just depends on how far the fantasizes takes it. Tbh you might just be that fantasy. I have this girl I know and we will forever ever have the most insane sexual chemistry, despite the fact that she's married. We haven't indulged on it cause we both know, deep down, that it's nothing more than sex. Also, don't listen to me cause I'm v drunk right now

 

I am very hungover and a vessel for regret. Pretty sure I made a bit of a penis of myself last night by allowing one of the girls on the meetup to totally have me in the palm of her hand.

Petite women with pretty smiles are like fucking kryponite for me. It's disgraceful.

 

No it's not a fantasy what we have is real. If it wasn't I don't think she would be sending me provocative and half naked photos. We have always had a special connection since the day we met. She has this amazing smile. It's to die for

 

That's right I'm quoting myself. Fight me.

Anyways, we ended up talking for like 30 minutes and she legitimately seems like an amazing person. I lost her in the crowd afterwards so I'm bummed we didn't get to dance but we exchanged phone numbers so, hopefully she'll still want to hang out now that we're both sober.

 

good luck man!

 

I quote myself every day

It's the best

 

Thanks dude! It felt really good to have the confidence to go talk to a random girl and have it pay off.

 

hell yeah. I barely had the confidence to go on a Tinder date a month ago but I'm way more comfortable with those now. I'm still a ways off from approaching someone in public lol. Hope it goes well for you.

 

me right now @ 1:45 mark

 

I never thought I'd say this sincerely but does she want you to cuck her husband?

 

Haha

 

Omg lmfao wow.