(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 338

Good luck!!

 

My bff is back with her verbally abusive ex I'm pretty sure, and my other friend is still calling and texting me every day about her weird circular non-relationship thing and it's exhausting! With the second friend every day there's a new "crisis" when he hasn't spoken to her in a few hours and I cannot deal anymore. Get it together!!!

 

As it relates to second circumstance, I have a friend that is in similar circumstances, I've basically said that I no longer want to hear about their issues. When it is Facebook official, then you can talk to me about it. Ha.

 

I'm getting to that point! I've told her I have run out of advice and perspective because it's the same bs everyday. I have nothing left to give so idk what she's after. That and I think she's making a really stupid mistake so it's hard to hear about a "relationship" that I think is a terrible idea lol. Like can we just fast forward to when it doesn't work out and we can trash talk the guy??

 

I don't know if there is any correlation, but last year I realized that my hair was receding (I'm 24) at my temples so, instead of fighting it, I've been shaving it as close as I can without actually Bic'ing it, and ever since then, I feel like women have been more attracted to me. Which is interesting because I feel like 1. I'm better looking with hair and 2. my self esteem and confidence has gone down, which I know is unattractive. So, I know this question is kind of stupid as it's all subjective, but I am curious, for the ladies in here, what are your thoughts on bald dudes? Do you care at all?

 

I can't answer the question but: am beginning to bald at 25, can confirm self esteem blow

But I've met a lot of people who don't care and am also in a great relationship

 

I'm quite hairy and am willing to donate

 

I think a lot of it is likely just subjective. You know something about yourself changed (your haircut) and thus, every positive interaction with a girl you're more likely to notice as you assume the opposite would've happened. Probably coincidence and they're just into you, regardless of hairstyle.

 

My hair is receding, but I don't give a fuck.

 

Hairline seems to be staying put for now.

Gonna battle obesity my whole life most likely though, so one less genetic battle to fight would be nice.

 

Hair is the feature I'm usually attracted to the most so I'm trying to get over that cause like obv it's gonna thin and recede and I refuse to be dating dudes in their early 20s when I'm like 40 just for the hair. I have super thick hair so maybe I can donate it to any future partners I have lol.

 

genuineness (+ kindness) / interesting interests / hair / eyes are the four qualities i am most attracted to in any potential partner

 

My mom is a cosmetologist and she's been commenting the last few times she's cut my hair that it's thinning and balding :( v self conscious about it

 

my hair's receding but it seems to be going okay for Prince William, oh right he's a prince but still

feel's a bit hypocritical that hair is important to me

 

hollllyyyy fuck i just went on a date with literally the coolest girl i have ever met in my entire fucking life

 

k i can't get too in detail here but basically i pulled off a DM slide on a girl in brooklyn for a single use christmas date and we smooched and i have been outclassed in coolness for the first time in my life.

 

What is a DM slide?

 

dm slide is when you hit a girl's/dude's/they's DMs on twitter/instagram/etc

 

I've heard the DMs are where it quote "goes down"

 

i have thick, luscious hair and my hairline is in tact. #blessed also my eyes are beautiful #soblessed

 

a girl slid into my dms once and now we live together and are moving across the country together in a week

 

we dm'd for almost two months before we were like we should probably just text huh

 

I've never gotten any DMs lol cool