(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 1495

Discussion in 'General Forum' started by dylan, Apr 7, 2016.

  1. coleslawed

    Eat Pizza

    that’s the route i’ve been considering. I just don’t want to seem like I’m bitter and cutting her out because of that.
     
  2. Mr. Serotonin

    I'm still staring down the sun Prestigious

    I did a triple take at the username after reading the post. >-p
     
  3. oldjersey

    Luigipeppercorn is a hack geek Supporter

    That's fair, that's why you make sure you are polite in doing it, you are absolutely entitled to do it. Maybe she won't react well, that doesn't matter, if she doesn't its because of reasons @Mr. Serotonin just mentioned. If she's a half decent human being (im sure she is) she will understand and be civil. If she doesn't understand good riddance bro.
     
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  4. coleslawed

    Eat Pizza

    yeah, I think she was trying to let me down easy but that’s the part that hurts the most.
     
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  5. ncarrab

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    One of my biggest regrets when I was younger (about 10 years ago - when I was 23) was spending almost a year of my life trying to hold onto a relationship that ended abruptly after four years of dating. I made myself miserable trying to keep in contact, trying to hang out, trying to keep the relationship alive and although we would continue to talk and occasionally hang out, I would always eventually be let down and hurt again and just kept digging myself deeper and deeper into a hole.

    Don't do that to yourself. Move on, stop communicating, block social media accounts if you have to. Don't put your life on hold. All things I wish I had done ASAP following the break-up.

    I know it's easier said than done, but it's the truth.
     
  6. oldjersey

    Luigipeppercorn is a hack geek Supporter

    Yeah it is way easier said than done but it is so fuckin liberating to do. Just gotta take it a day at a time, I feel like having a friend know about it and holding you accountable to it also helps alot.
     
  7. MrCon

    I was trying to describe myself to someone

    This sounds agonisingly familiar.
     
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  8. supernovagirl

    Poetic and noble land mermaid

    *pointedly refuses to make eye contact with anyone in here*
     
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  9. Signifire

    This juice I got ain’t Minute Made Supporter

    Got a match on Bumble like 15 minutes after I made my profile. And now of course she isn’t messaging me lol.
     
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  10. Ken

    Entrusted Prestigious

    [​IMG]
     
  11. Mr. Serotonin

    I'm still staring down the sun Prestigious

    [​IMG]
     
  12. colorlesscliche

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    This is where I struggle, although I feel my situation is a bit more complicated since a 3 year-old is involved. I am infatuated with my ex-wife. Like head over heals, intense lust, the whole nine yards. We've had chemistry since we were 13 years old (in middle school) and now we're 32 and I'm just as giddy when I see her as I was when I was a horny kid. I want to stop communicating, and block social media, and move on, but with my kid, it's hard. She posts videos on her IG stories of him doing some amazing, funny, adorable things. How could I give that up?
     
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  13. ncarrab

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    Yeah, if kids are involved it’s a whole other ballgame. Obviously, communication must continue in some aspect for several reasons.
     
  14. waking season

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    Just matched with a brewer at one of my favorite local breweries, let’s see how this goes
     
  15. coleslawed

    Eat Pizza

    she finally replied, not the responses I had been hoping for (obviously), but it helped ease my mind a ton to actually hear her say she doesn’t see us back together.

    thanks for all the encouragement and reassurance in here.

    still gotta decide if my heart can take going to the show knowing she’ll also be there.
     
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  16. DickyCullz

    Doesn’t have Ashley Madison



    Wow

    -4 for not being a student??
     
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  17. Jacob

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    That’s inland empire bingo for girls on tinder sans the “overly attached to my horse “ freebie
     
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  18. Jacob

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    Guy freebie is “overly attached to my modded car”
     
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  19. Dog with a Blog Mar 14, 2019
    (Last edited: Mar 14, 2019)
    Dog with a Blog

    mangeur de cul Prestigious

    Christian Mom texted me asking if I wanna “schedule a call”

    Wat.
     
  20. Mr. Serotonin

    I'm still staring down the sun Prestigious

    Damn, pretty forward!
     
  21. Ken

    Entrusted Prestigious

    I hope you said yes!
     
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  22. theagentcoma

    nobody look Supporter

    how the fuck does one be "professional and ratchet" simultaneously?
     
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  23. Dog with a Blog

    mangeur de cul Prestigious

    I didn’t say anything.
     
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  24. Ken Mar 14, 2019
    (Last edited: Mar 14, 2019)
    Ken

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  25. DickyCullz

    Doesn’t have Ashley Madison

    bad dog