(Reasons We're Probably Not) Dating Or In A Relationship Thread NSFW • Page 1397

Discussion in 'General Forum' started by dylan, Apr 7, 2016.

  1. Kiana

    You look like bad news, I gotta have you Prestigious

    yeah I guess it does have its benefits, especially since I know so many people now in my field that if I have a question or need info I can just call up a friend. But I also hate that people always know what you're up to and just like I remember people the way they were in high school, I don't want to be remembered for the way I was in high school lol disaster
     
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  2. Carmen SD

    Regular

    Speaking of exes (I may be a tad late), I like to lurk peoples public profiles as well as people I went to school with sometimes to see how/where they ended up. I don’t have many exes because I didn’t date much, but most of them when I think back on it, I’m glad it didn’t work out. Or the jerks I encountered and almost dated. Some others seemed to fall off the face of the earth and always curious to see where they ended up.

    There also was always this one guy tho that was more of an acquaintance/mutual friend that i felt like would have been a good match for me if he was interested in me (who knows maybe he was but was too shy to say anything). We like a munch of the same music and it was like musical soulmate status.
     
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  3. Mr. Serotonin

    I'm still staring down the sun Prestigious

    All my exes live in texas
     
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  4. dylan

    "You’re amazing and great" - @thesoftskeleton Prestigious

    Tired: flying to texas tonight to see @thesoftskeleton

    wired: flying to texas tonight to pet kaitie's dog Jojo
     
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  5. dadbolt

    the sun is yellow and the ground is moving Supporter

    why’d you delete my mention you coward
     
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  6. St. Nate

    Dark Mode? Never Heard of It... Prestigious

    hahahahaha you're gonna get a faceful of fart
     
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  7. iCarly Rae Jepsen

    make my wish come true Prestigious

    You could just walk into your living room to pet a dog
    Seems like a waste of money
     
  8. dylan

    "You’re amazing and great" - @thesoftskeleton Prestigious

    no, jojo is worth the flight
     
  9. dylan

    "You’re amazing and great" - @thesoftskeleton Prestigious

    i don't want people knowing I associate with you
     
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  10. dadbolt

    the sun is yellow and the ground is moving Supporter

    that’s fair
     
  11. SlappinCups

    nobody else will be there then

    ok so while we're kind of on the macabre: I was talking with a girl recently and we agreed to get together soon, but upon doing some social media stalking I saw that her last boyfriend unfortunately had unexpectedly passed away this past summer (while they were dating it appears). Obviously I can see where that could leave a wound, but I just got the general sense via text she was trying to move kind of fast, which I can't really blame her. Anyone dealt with a similar situation before?
     
  12. Mr. Serotonin

    I'm still staring down the sun Prestigious

    Yikes, that's tough Cups.
     
  13. colorlesscliche

    Trusted Prestigious

    Good luck man, but if she didn't bring it up with you, I wouldn't address it.
     
  14. theagentcoma

    just me and my dog and an impossible view Supporter

    yes please let me be a guest
     
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  15. thesoftskeleton

    you're a germ

    from jojo or....??????
     
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  16. iCarly Rae Jepsen

    make my wish come true Prestigious

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  17. Dog with a Blog

    Will I ever put flowers by the street? Prestigious

    Have not dealt with this or know anyone has dealt with this, but I do know that grief is a personal experience and everyone handles it differently. If she feels she’s ready to move on then she should explore that. She’ll bring it up when the time is right for her, I wouldn’t worry about it too much
     
  18. Dog with a Blog

    Will I ever put flowers by the street? Prestigious

    Update: I was considering this based on the fact that I thought I was done with school by then. I’m not. The day she’s going is like the busiest day of my school year lol.
     
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  19. SlappinCups

    nobody else will be there then

    Sorry, I wasn't very clear in my post. I don't mean to imply she is moving on too fast from grieving, obviously she would only know a time that is right for her. Just in texting me (before I found out about her ex) it just seemed a little... too aggressive? or something. Idk I really hate to sound self-involved in this situation, bc I'm sure I would feel some sort of awful if my partner died, but I also don't really want to just kind of be an emotional plug if that makes sense...

    lol there's no way to not feel/look like an asshole when trying to communicate any of this so sorry
     
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  20. Borat

    Formerly known as MikeyPaine Prestigious

    Today is the day...I'm so NERVOUS. I know I really don't need to be, I'm pretty certain she likes me to some degree but idk I obviously can't help it. Today she's being like kinda ""mean"" to me (like pretty clearly in playful way) so idk I guess that's kinda flirty. Pray for me...
     
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  21. Dog with a Blog

    Will I ever put flowers by the street? Prestigious

    What are y’all gonna do?
     
  22. ComedownMachine

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    You’ve got this buddy. Someday she’ll be like your chair.
     
  23. Mr. Serotonin

    I'm still staring down the sun Prestigious

    Hopefully he'll be like her chair yaknowhatimsayin yuk yuk yuk yuk :teethsmile:
     
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  24. SlappinCups

    nobody else will be there then

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  25. Borat

    Formerly known as MikeyPaine Prestigious

    We are meeting at a mutual friends get together. Should be a pretty small low key thing.
     
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