(Reasons we're not having) Sex (and WoW) Thread NSFW • Page 42

i dont remember the exact reasoning but i know the conversation was had at least a couple times. i think it was in part because of the moderation policies at the time.

 

Wouldn't surprise me! I've seen people on this site still do it. They justify it with their ~preferences tho and they can't help it and it just IS. blah blah racist mumbling blah

 

I was on a date last year some time and I was talking about I think Jesse Williams in Cabin in The Woods saying how attracted I was too him and he straight up says "oh you like 'darker' men" in a really disparaging tone and started going on about his preferences. I was disgusted. I think that was worth a ghosting tbh.

 

As an Asian dude, it is disheartening to hear people's "racial preferences" as it just reminds me of the reality of my existence in this white supremacy society and that I must be twice as good as any white guy.

 

I have a racist ex. I should've seen the signs but I was too young and dumb and about giving the benefit of the doubt. Towards the end of our relationship he demanded to know which race I was more attracted to cause he was real threatened that I found usher atrractive. He's also the one who called me his little latina. I will add this to Kiana makes bad decisions.

 

Grindr is awful for that. I really want this Kim Chi t shirt.

It's a play on "no fats no fems no *insert race*" shit that's on pretty much every white guys grindr profile.

 

how can he not feel threatened after listening to "My Way."

also Usher is a big cutie.

 

love 2 make out

 

You're at least twice as good as me I think

 

I'd say three times.

 

A lot of people fight me when I say I don't have a preference like it's not possible to feel that way.

 

Oh yeah...USHERR..

 

As for the babe thread, I just never understood the point. Just google that shit on your own, there's no need to share your spank bank with others.

 

Personally having a type feels weird to me

 

i don't think i've ever actually met someone that didn't have a preference. with some of my friends it would be impossible to remember names and faces because all the faces / people looked exactly like the last 15 they were with.

 

I'm of the opinion that new is better, so why be with the same person who was the same type as the last person?

 

The way I feel about it is that you can miss out on a lot of good relationships bc you're hung up on physical characteristics. I don't think like the majority does though.

 

Could be quality spanks I missing out on because I just don't know.

 

i'll be honest, i have a preference. and that preference is to hate everyone equally.

 

Yeah, it's funny when you hear someone say something like "I'd never date anyone under 5'10 or something like that. I'm always like, you'd really turn down Zac Efron?

Just dumb to make blanket statements like that. It also doesn't factor in personality AT ALL.

 

I think people only think they have a type, but in reality you are either attracted to someone or you're not, it's not really a conscience choice like "I only go for short women" or something like that. You may, in a general sense, tend to be attracted to a certain physical trait, but I don't think that really indicates a "type".

 

I'm Zac Efron's height and I'd think it be really cool to be with someone taller. I'd be super cocky about it too.

 

I have a "type" in that, that kind of men made me realise I like men and who I have a little fun to. I like shorter bigger guys with a bit of a belly and chest hair. But I had never been with anyone of that type until recently.

It's like they're who I like to look at but they're not the only people I'm attracted to nor would I ever think of "locking" myself to that type. It's hard to word and I don't think I did it correctly.

 

I've noticed I like when guys have dark curly hair and I tend not go for guys with light hair but even then... I've dated guys with straight and light hair lol. Some people are so specific about who they'll date! One time my bff visited me and her new bf was in the backseat of the car but I only kinda glanced back. He looked exactly like her ex and it took me like 30 min to realize it was a different guy.