The prevalence of the dick pic in our society is astounding to me. I have never once sent one or been asked to send one (maybe that says more about me) so people just assuming you want them is something I can't wrap my head around
I couldn't believe how many random dick pics I got on Snapchat. Everyone filled me in that I could change the settings so that's what I did.
I remember when I created an Okcupid profile a long time ago, I set my interested in section incorrectly and I got a bunch of messages asking me if I wanted to see their dicks.
I don't get it or how obsessed dudes are with their dicks , plus the whole harassment element obviously
dick pics are so not arousing in every way unless there's context, build up and consent. if you flop some meat in my face that shit does nothing.
Obviously I've never used Tinder. Some days I wish that I was single for a bit in this crazy dating app world, but others I'm very glad I found my wife when I did.
I've been asked. So, instead of sending one, I sent back a hand-drawn picture. Smilie faces were involved. There were heart bubbles. It was when I was younger and more romantic. But, honestly, the crude nature of men is one of the reasons I decided to not deal with them anymore.
I need context too. In my mind, it is more like the opening of Star Wars films, in which the backstory is laid out. Then, i might have accepted one.
That is something that has been on my mind while kinda figuring some things about me out lately.. Seems like trying to even deal with men in the dating realm would be terrible
also the receiver of the pic is probably desensitized to dicks at this point anyways. if you're on a site/app that is for hooking up i can guarantee that person has seen many a pics of dicks that were sent to them, yours aint so special that it's going to suddenly arouse the person, at least in my opinion. None the less, seems like the general consensus of everyone here is dick pics aren't so great haha
That brings up a good point though.. What are these people trying to accomplish by sending the pic? Is just knowing someone saw it enough? What's the end-game
Pretty much. And, on my end, I was always closer to the heterosexual end of the spectrum, so it was easier for me to discard them as the brutes they are. It makes one wonder how women deal with our collective insecurities and mental deformations.