(Reasons we're not having) Sex (and WoW) Thread NSFW • Page 295

tobehonestidontevenknowwhatthefuckitis?

 

ya

 

everyone be hootin and hollerin

 

what is it ken

 

@Fucking Dustin's face on kirby's body. It's like a sequel to Face/Off but we never get to see Kirby's face on Dustin's body.

 

Why ya gotta ruin Kirby for me

 

it wasn't me

 

Kirby is only enhanced

 

Okay shaggy

That picture set humanity back 100 years

 

fuck him and fuck his fans

go Vince Staples, go Amine, go DUCKWRTH

 

Anyone ace/kink? Or at least knowledgeable on at least one? I may have some Q's.

 

It doesn’t help but I’m in love with someone who is Ace.

 

I think I may be ace but not sure if I can help

 

Yeah, I guess that's my first question, like, how do you know?

 

I asked my friend who is ace/aromantic and got her permission to post this:

sexuality and gender, i believer are incredibly fluid. what you are one day might not be what you are on another. however, as people, we like naming things, because to label, means to belong. This is important because in high school, I wanted to fit in right? And the sexualities any one talked about then were gay or straight. Like, even bisexual was a dirty word. I knew I wasn't straight but that didn't explain why I didn't care at all for sex? why didn't I react the way to boys OR girls the way my friends did? Why was I just not interested? I had sex, just didn't care for it, but had no idea why. Finally, in college, I took another health class and suddenly there were a multitude of sexualities (and genders!) I could choose from. And after a lot of my own research and asking people on tumblr, I figured asexual was the one for me. That seemed to be the most apt description for how i was currently feeling

 

This was helpful, especially these two bits.

I guess part of what's been tough to figure out is I always considered myself cis-het; I knew of asexuality for a while but never thought it described me until fairly recently, and I was like, Wait, is my sexuality uncommon??? (I don't want to use the word "abnormal" b/c it's not.) I think I was under the misconception that I was actively choosing to avoid having relationships and sex. I mean, of course I've had crushes, but I don't think I've felt sexual attraction the same way most people seem to. I came to the realization that "I'm just waiting for the right person" was actually "I'm not really interested."

Another thing I've been wrestling with is I've always thought of myself as an ally to the LGBTQIA+ community, but like, there's an A at the end of that. Am I suddenly expected to attend pride parades or?

 

response:

this goes back to the thing about labels. Humans want to fit in, we want a place to belong. And that's ok. Some people (myself included) use gay and queer interchangeably and as umbrella terms. Some people do not. It all depends on what feels right for you. Because it's whatever you feel comfortable with. Which may seem like the most useless advice and something I constantly struggle with but it's the most accurate. If you don't want to go to parades, then don't. and real talk, if people are making demands like that? that's shitty af, fam. Also, idk level of research, but this person should look into demisexual/pansexual/aromantic bc those might fit too. But again, don't be afraid if nothing fits just right.

 

Oh, no, not at all, haha. That's more just me wondering if aces are expected to join the good fight on the front lines. I've never been much of an activist, but I call out shit when I see it--that's not gonna change.

And yeah, I want to be all rebellious and like, "Fuck labels, I do what I want," but there's that part of me that wants to know where I fit in, you know? I don't feel like I neatly fit into "ace," except if it's used as more of an umbrella term to describe part of the spectrum of sexual attraction. "It's complicated" is supposed to be a relationship status on Facebook, not a sexuality, and yet so far I feel like that's all I've got to describe myself.

 

Lord give me strength.

Went to a bar tonight. This super cool girl and I started making out or whatever and then she left but we exchanged numbers. I would like to hang out with her tbh

Then I ran into a coworker. We ended up making out and she asked if I could bring her home. Had to sober up I drank a few waters and chilled for awhile. After a bit, we left and as we were driving she was like, “so how easy it to give you road head in this car?” (I drive a stick). It’s nearly impossible. I told her as such and then she kept on saying she wanted to give me head. But alas, ya boi held strong for the first time in his life and simply dropped her off. I have found favor in the lords eyes

 

you are living in multiple blink-182 songs

 

@SlappinCups

Looird giove meee strioengioth.

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edzactly

 

you really lived @ComedownMachine 's fantasy

 

This stuff happens to him because he’s handsome

 

What a tragedy.