(Reasons we're not having) Sex (and WoW) Thread NSFW • Page 208

It's weird that happens sometimes. I had an ex that was really but over time I just didn't wanna hookup with her anymore. It was kinda sad.

 

Some people just don't have urges, and obviously that's fine, but it's something to take into account when you're planning a monogamous future with someone. Mismatched libidos can run into a lot of problems so it's really important to consider. This is also why I think waiting till marriage is pretty short-sighted haha.

 

I think it’s always going to be a problem in my relationships because my sex drive just is not that high. So I feel like it’s doomed to crash all of my relationships. It also fucks me up mentally a bit because it makes me feel like “less of a man” and whatnot which is stupid as hell.

 

Keep your chin up. You're just the kind of man a lot of people are looking for.

 

I don’t mean to come off as judgmental towards those that do, but I can’t comprehend this at all. Unless sex just isn’t important to you, then I guess it doesn’t matter, but I can’t imagine being in a marriage where the sex sucks

 

I tell this all the time to my friend who doesn’t like P in V but is attracted to women and loves getting his balls kicked. I’m like dude, you need to find someone very very special, but they are out there haha

 

Or worse, where someone becomes manipulative or coercive to get what they want.

 

We just didn't talk about it, and I'm not a big fan of confrontations so it just festered away in the back of mind. That plus my move to LA which she was never on board with, and I think I just mentally checked out towards the end, and well, here we are.

But my sex life now is fucking great, so.... swings and roundabouts I guess

 

Also I may appear to be making light of my situation but I've come to terms with how much of a total dick I was, and I have (hopefully anyway) used that to build and grow and be a better man to those around me.

 

T H I C C

 

I think there are lots of women with lower sex drives. Last girlfriend I had didnt have sex for an entire year or more before we were together. Her "end all" was cuddling. I think she may have the latter in common with the average woman. They all seem to love to cuddle, the ones Ive met at least.

 

tbh I think my sex drive is moderately low. I’m content with it maybe once or twice a week but if it is something like every other week that is still fine.

But I mean everyone probably has different definitions of a high to a low one.

 

I’d say once or twice a week is far from low. That would be ideal for me.

 

I'm the same way. And its so much work. Like ugh if it's cold and layers of clothing are involved u have to take them all off and god forbid if it's the middle of the day u gotta put them back on again!!! And shower! And don't even get me started on the vile practice of morning sex before any tooth brushing has occurred. It could be my depression and lack of motivation to ever do anything tho lol

 

^^^hahaaa @dylan

 

I mean, it's not that difficult to quickly freshen up in the morning. No one likes getting all kissy with dragon breath.

 

I try to make my breathe worse

 

I wish. Ass legitimately smells fantastic.

 

In the morning my mouth tastes like napkins

 

mr. s is gonna have himself quite the weekend it sounds like

 

LOL she got us one of the nicest lofts in St. Augustine and has a whole surprise itinerary planned. Celebrating pretty much both our birthdays cause friday is basically right in the middle of both of ours...though i'm the younger man

 

damn ponce de leon, u about to discover the fountain of youth there for sure

 

I'm definitely gonna cover some ground.

 

im gonna have a very good evening