(Reasons we're not having) Sex (and WoW) Thread NSFW • Page 207

Maybe she can finally break the spell

 

I haven't been to therapy (for my possible divorce) in well over a month, but we're going tomorrow. One of my remaining issues, and I can't commit to making it work, is that she has no desire to have sex with me. I'm going to bring it up tomorrow, but I'm also maybe thinking of going to a sex therapist? I'm struggling with it, because while I respect her and in no way will I ever force it if she's not comfortable, it's one of the things I look for in a partner (a physical relationship). She's even said to sleep with other people. Which, truthfully, I haven't processed yet.

 

Oh that is rough, I'm so sorry. I hope things get better for you.

 

K

 

I think I’ve asked you this before, but is sexual intimacy something she’s always struggled with? Sorry you’re going through all this man. Sounds really tough

 

"I could give 4 fucks whether it's my bday or not."

 

One of the reasons my marriage broke down was partly due to the complete lack of sex. I think in our final year we had sex once, and not through any lack of try to initiate on my part.

 

Not enough

 

Yeah, it’s be quite a roller coaster. It’s coming up on a year since we’ve lived apart. Ready for it to be over.

Not at all. We’ve been very compatible, but since I moved out she just lost all interest. She says she too hurt. But then we do things like shower together, she will lay naked and let me rub her before we fall asleep, etc. So it’s very confusing.

Yeah, a part of me feels like a dirty perv for making it such a priority, but the more people I talk to, they kind of say things similar to this and I don’t feel as bad. Still tough.

 

It wasn't just the sex, the whole intimacy thing had pretty much vanished. It felt like we were just going through the motions of being in a relationship. I handled my situation very poorly though, so I wouldn't take advice from me.

 

I just saw the worst picture I’ve ever seen on the internet. I guess it’s technically SFW but it’s not SFL. Who always posts the Sonic pictures again? Is that @angrycandy?

 

oh please god no

 

@Your Milkshake

 

post that shit james

 

Fk u Dylan.

 

ok

 

@Dog with a Blog post the picture

 

hahahahaha that caption holy shit

 

jesus

 

I'm turned on. I already was, but now I still am.

 

Oh bother

 

Bad dog

 

I identify with the first part of this...so I guess in what way did you handle it poorly, if you don't mind me asking? I mean you say don't take advice from you but maybe learn from your mistakes? :/

 

You shouldn't feel any shame for making it a priority. It's an important part of being compatibile with someone.