What the? Why??? Do you think someone’s gonna be mean about a literal child??? You hold us to such high esteem lmao But real talk the choo choo makes it. It’s a fit. You’re a king. We are blessed by you I also definitely almost made a joke about @thesoftskeleton wearing it and she beat me to it!!
I need to prove I don’t just wear floral but also I’m not doing a good job debunking that necessarily either hhaha
Actually I was looking at my kid pictures at my parents house a couple weeks ago and was like damn I'd wear that now lol
You CAN convince yourself to not be this way though Anything mental is literally all convincing yourself!! * Like I empathize with you that you’ve obviously tried and haven’t had success (yet) and I’m not saying *I* have the answers for you, just that I believe it’s 100000% possible with the proper tools, and I believe in you to make it happen if that’s what you want. *disclaimer that sometimes the convincing yourself just needs to happen under the guidance and medication of a doctor lol I’m not being one of Those people
I appreciate the sentiment, I really do... but, this isn't a matter of me just convincing myself. Well, it is, but I was made fun of a lot as a kid and I don't have the stomach for it, so I avoid putting myself in situations like this thread. But I try sometimes. wtf m8
I’m trying to be real and honest and not Too Much so if I’m coming across that way then I’m sorry. But literally speaking we all have traumas from childhood and part of adulthood is figuring out how to move on from them and heal from them!! I believe that so wholeheartedly. Trying sometimes is great start!!! Changing of mental processes takes actual consistent effort and doesn’t happen overnight, just keep trying! And you should know that you should feel comfortable and safe here because we all love and support you!
I'm not trying to paint the picture that I'm unhappy or think I look bad or anything. I'm doing really well for myself in many regards, but looking at photos of myself doesn't make me feel great haha. I don't think I'm necessarily ugly, I just don't have the confidence in it. I wish I wasn't this way, but I'm ultimately okay with that.
If you’re not trying to paint that picture, being weary about a TODDLER pic is not the way hahaha You wish you weren’t that way...but you’re also okay? Which is it? Honey I see a confident content guy in you who’s begging to get out, it’s clear that you have the desire to participate in this kind of stuff otherwise you wouldn’t be here. And I firmly believe anything holding you back from anything is not worth holding on to!!! So your insecurities keeping you from participating in a fun goofy ultimately meaningless thread with your internet friends have gotta go!!