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Mental Health Thread • Page 235

Discussion in 'General Forum' started by AelNire, Mar 9, 2016.

  1. xapplexpiex

    sup? Supporter

    I’ve been going through my manic phase the past couple days. I love this book I’m reading. I love a band I just discovered. I’m drafting a book I’m writing. I love this, but I’m also terrified because the better this is, the harder I fall and I can only see it creeping
     
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  2. rebecca

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    You sound exactly like me when I'm manic, which also happens to be right now. I'm also scared it'll turn into something worse. I just try to be self-aware. My therapist and psychiatrist both agree that if I have little hypomanic episodes that aren't actively causing any damage in my life, it might not be anything to worry about, it's just something to keep an eye on. Are you taking any medications? If so, do you think you might need an adjustment? I don't think I'll be getting one but I'm considering it, if the psychiatrist thinks I need one.
     
  3. rebecca

    Regular

    On the note of mania/hypomania...can my brain just chill and stop coming up with new research ideas every five seconds? I really want to do this undegrad student/faculty research program next year but I can't tell if I'm just thinking about it because I'm manic. I hate that I have trouble figuring out who I am vs. what's just mania. I hate that I'm probably just really a lazy person but when I'm manic (which is honestly a lot of the time) I become super motivated. I already consider myself a failure half the time but I think I'd be more of one without this disorder, which is just so fucking weird. Bipolar disorder is so bizarre. People think we just hear voices (of course some people do though) and ruin peoples' lives (I fucking hate that stigma) but they don't know what it's actually like at all.

    I also listened to Joyce Manor and Jawbreaker today and thought about a former friend of mine I used to talk about those bands with. I sort of missed him and thought maybe I overreacted over the summer. Then I remembered he said awful and blatantly untrue things about people with bipolar disorder and was just not a very nice person in general and I feel like I did the right thing. All we did was talk about music anyway, and I have better friends I can do that with and also talk about other things with too.
     
  4. mad

    I was right. Prestigious

    something I’ve been trying to do each night is mentally list the things I did well that day
    I definitely recommend anyone who’s struggling with self worth to try it out, I find it helpful for reframing things in a positive light
     
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  5. xapplexpiex

    sup? Supporter

    I take Lamictal. When I’ve run out, my anxiety is so bad I’m in physical pain and my head feels like it’s going to explode and nothing helps. I’m afraid if I increase my dosage I won’t want to do anything. My dosage was actually higher a while before and I was a zombie. I would get home from work and go right to bed at 6. I lost interest in everything and was numb. I guess I need to find a dosage in the middle.
     
  6. theagentcoma

    yeah good okay Prestigious

    I take Lamictal too! Running out is terrible. I get so moody and lethargic and burst into tears at the slightest provocation. Drugs are weird.
     
  7. rebecca

    Regular

    We should start a Lamictal club. I can't remember if I took mine but I haven't noticed any changes and I'd rather not risk double-dosing.
     
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  8. JulieLynn

    Karma is the Guy On The Chiefs Supporter

    Nothing like being bullied out of a thread and made to feel like you don't matter as a human.
     
  9. JulieLynn

    Karma is the Guy On The Chiefs Supporter

    I'm sorry I didn't see this sooner, Chase. Anytime you wanna talk, I'm here. Lord knows I could use someone to talk to right about now.
     
  10. BirdPerson

    fuck tammy! Prestigious

    hang out in astro lounge, far fewer dickbags
     
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  11. xapplexpiex

    sup? Supporter

    What thread?
     
  12. BirdPerson

    fuck tammy! Prestigious

    and i WILL delete that thread if dickbaggishness occurs on my watch



    related to mental health: i passed my background check for sprouts without any issues, so either my "secret" is safe or they really actually do not care that i'm a trans dude
     
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  13. JulieLynn

    Karma is the Guy On The Chiefs Supporter

    thankfully the drama stopped. I'm not going to be like the person who took my post from here and posted it in the drama thread.

    but thanks for the support!
     
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  14. JulieLynn

    Karma is the Guy On The Chiefs Supporter

    awww. so sweet.

    I did not know this and I think that you are fucking awesome! My cousin is currently in transition. Female to male. I love the hell out of him.
     
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  15. BirdPerson

    fuck tammy! Prestigious

    i gotta tell you, for all the bitching i do in here about my transition, i feel better than i ever have in my life
     
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  16. JulieLynn

    Karma is the Guy On The Chiefs Supporter

    That makes me so happy to hear!
     
  17. CobraKidJon

    Fun must be always. Prestigious

    I WORKED THERE they don’t

    we have a trans person at my store and he is a good friend
     
  18. As someone who want to transition but is constantly depressed about the whole process and its social consequences, this is inspiring to read. I'm so happy for you. You rock!
     
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  19. BirdPerson

    fuck tammy! Prestigious

    :)
    i just passed two years on testosterone last week. for all of the bullshit, and there is A LOT of bullshit...i can't imagine not ever going through with it now.
     
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  20. BirdPerson

    fuck tammy! Prestigious

    shout out to @Gwen and @nohandstoholdonto for being brave and going first and taking journeys that helped me start my own
     
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  21. JulieLynn

    Karma is the Guy On The Chiefs Supporter

    OMG you guys...now i'm crying for happy reasons.

    Oh man I have to go see my cousin after work and hug him for like an hour.
     
  22. Yeah it's a continuous journey. I spent so many years hiding that part of my identity by forcing myself to act "straight" and "cis", but it has always felt off and I'm never being taken seriously in my surrounding environments anyway. People will always find a way to judge you, so I'm done with the desperation to please others.

    I think I'm really early in this journey, though it started more than a decade ago in my mind and Laura Jane Grace's coming out was a huge eye opener, because there are awful family issues that are preventing me from pursuing my transition at the rate I would like to. I hope I'll be able to handle the barriers thrown at me, though I have no idea how much of a different struggle the process is in my country compared to the US or the UK.

    It feels cathartic to say all of this. My current social life is pretty much nonexistent so I'm grateful for having this discussion with all of you. This is one of the few remaining threads I feel safe posting on here. Thanks again.
     
  23. JulieLynn

    Karma is the Guy On The Chiefs Supporter

    This thread has always been a safe place for me, even back on AP.net. Please feel free to reach out to me if you ever want to talk. I don't personally know what you are going through, but I see what my cousin faces and I would give my life for that kid.

    Same goes for anyone in here. I am always available to talk.
     
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  24. BirdPerson

    fuck tammy! Prestigious

    from what i can tell, transitioning is "easy" in certain parts of the USA - like i was over 18 living near san francisco so I went informed consent for hormones and it took a little less than 2 months from my initial call to my first shot (+ i haven't lived with my family in more than a decade so that kind of thing never entered into it). and then a fuck ton harder in others, say the deep south. the UK is a long, long wait bc of NHS and i think if you're NB you basically have to lie and say you're binary if you want hormones or surgery. france i'm really not sure. dunno if you have FB but there are a bunch of great support groups on there where you could probably find answers to questions you might have
     
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  25. That's reassuring. Yeah I started contacting LGBT groups and french trans people on twitter. I went to the one in my former college's town... and was surprisingly condescended because I apparently didn't use the "right" terms... by someone who isn't trans, which just made me get the fuck off that place forever. But then that person basically said that they couldn't do anything for me (welp??) and that I should contact a trans association from another town a bit farther, so at least I got something positive out of this weird experience.
     
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