Hayley Williams and Chad Gilbert Release Joint Statement • Page 2

"I don't know what they're relationship was like but I'm gonna make assumptions about their dynamic anyway because I feel like I know everything."

Have some respect buddy.

 

When 1 in 5 marriages with an age gap of 7+ years ends in divorce (many less than one year later), and then you add in the fact that they're both on the road a lot, and one is (was) on their second marriage...

 

I think that dynamic is present in every relationship of its nature. I don't presume to know the dynamic or ins and outs of their entire relationship tho

 

jesus christ man chill the fuck out. Go re-read her posts she explained it well.

 

It's not as simple as, do what makes you happy

 

So now both of Chad Gilbert's marriages have been very short-lived

 

It's a bit surprising considering how long they were together prior to getting married - you'd think whatever caused the rift and split was likely percolating long before the nuptials. Regardless, hopefully this is part of a holistic reboot for Hayley in light of her other struggles. Wishing her (and Chad) nothing but the best.

 

I c wut u did there

 

Yeah you just never know. I mean, as people have said, she was young. People change.

 

That song sounds like it's about having regrets about cheating so it seemed fishy.

 

I guess they had a Vicious Love

 

"Chad cheated on Hayley and now they're splitting up?!? Nows my chance to make a pun off of one of their bands song titles!"

 

Sad.

 

This sucks, and I feel bad for both of them. Hopefully they are both okay and will come out of this stronger.

Also, I think the level of assumption making to be sort of disrespectful. I'm sure neither of them want these kind of comments being made. I know it's natural to wonder but if you're going to be supportive, do it, but don't do it by disrespecting the other person.

 

this puts After Laughter into perspective and gives it new context

 

Genuinely surprised no one's called for the boycott of NFG yet.

 

why would anyone do that

 

Damnit! It was so cool that nfg and paramore were married. I liked saying that!

Oh well. Hope they both cone out of this stronger.

 

Hopefully this doesn't hurt her future relationships.

 

Wait, why would it?

 

What a weird thing to say.

 

She dated Chad for 10 years and he was her first husband. I'm assuming the pain of something that major coming to an end could hault someone in their future relationship(s). The feeling of doubt and being afraid of commitment can easily overcome the mind after a big breakup. I'm hoping it doesn't, but it wouldn't be unusual if it does.