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Discussion in 'General Forum' started by Sean Murphy, Nov 9, 2019.

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  1. riotspray

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    I'm sorry. I know how hard that is because I recently got out of a 13 year long relationship. I know it's nearly impossible to convince yourself to "do the right thing" and that ultimately it's up to you to choose what to do and when to do it, but if you "feel" that it's over, it needs to be over. If the relationship truly hasn't run it course, then it will organically come back in time, but stretching it out will only create more resentment and potentially destroy any chance of salvaging the relationship/friendship/your own sanity in the long run.

    I hope this doesn't come off as condescending or cliche or anything other than me just expressing my feelings about my past relationship and hoping you can get something helpful out of it. If you need anything at all, we're here for you.
     
  2. dadbolt

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    Man I was wondering about this the other day when we were hanging out but I didn’t want to ask about it. Sorry to hear that dude
     
  3. iCarly Rae Jepsen

    run away with me Platinum

    Need my help pulling a Gone Girl we can do it together, ghosting your whole life seems glorious

    I hope you feel better soon
     
  4. dadbolt

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    started my morning off with an mhj and now I’m all jazzed up on coffee and adderall and it’s not even 8. truly ready to get this bread
     
  5. K0ta

    wrap yourself in petals for armor.

    It is not cliche or condescending at all and I appreciate you sharing. We've dated 6 years and that feels like so long so you must have really struggled. We have been on the downswing for close to 2 years now, it was a very slow decline that has rapidly accelerated this past year and I know what's in my heart and if I'm being honest with myself it's not him. It took me a long, long time to get there and it's taking me awhile to be strong enough to pull the trigger (well, I did about a month ago but he kind of took advantage of my guilt and I wanted to do anything to make him feel better so I told him we'd work on it...), but it really has been so many small, painful steps to get here and I don't think anybody can judge from the outside a situation like this because there's just too many variables. Everybody comes to things in their own time.

    Knowing I'm not alone in that is so helpful and if you ever want to talk about it feel free to PM me. Thank you.
     
  6. Ken

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  7. Ken

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    Minor hand job?
     
  8. Dirty Sanchez

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    What’s for lunch
     
  9. dadbolt

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    kind of that but different
     
  10. dadbolt

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    my girlfriend took the leftover sauce and ravioli filling from when we made that the other night and made some kind of baked pasta and packed that for me :D

    I prob won’t need it until dinner though lol
     
  11. riotspray

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    It's all good. It was time and I knew it long before, but hoped it would work itself out. We had something good for a long time but it eventually turned into more of a roommate situation/co-dependence/comfort. I'm not really upset the relationship is over, I'm more upset that neither of us were mature/experienced/aware enough to take the right steps to salvage it, or at least not let it become so toxic and hateful towards the end. We were young when we got together and then suddenly a decade and a half had passed and we were in our mid30s and still acting like 20 year olds. I'm glad to be out of it, but it's a little terrifying looking forward. It's all good though. Ce'st la vie.
     
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  13. Dirty Sanchez

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    When I read baked pasta, I read it as baked beans. I’m brainwashed, erm, beanwashed.
     
  14. dadbolt

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    :drool:
     
  15. iCarly Rae Jepsen

    run away with me Platinum

    Whoa
     
  16. riotspray

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    This is the reason I said "I hope this isn't condescending/cliche"

    I never really talked about my relationship with anyone other than 1 or 2 of my closest friends because I knew that everyone would try to talk me into leaving. I knew that's what I should do, but at the same time I couldn't really see my life any other way. You can only do you, but you have to do your best to actually listen to yourself and not force out every instinct that YOU have just because it's easier/more comfortable.
     
  17. Mr. Serotonin

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    Why drink coffee when you take an Adderall? :crylaugh:
     
  18. Dirty Sanchez

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  19. dadbolt

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    it makes it hit different
     
  20. Rob Hughes

    Play the Yakuza series

    let's get this beans
     
  21. Mr. Serotonin

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  22. CobraKidJon

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    I’m upset because lil nas x got nominated for album of the year over Tyler’s album which is like a million times better
     
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  23. Dirty Sanchez

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  24. Ken

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    I wish I still had my adderall prescription, ugh.
     
  25. K0ta

    wrap yourself in petals for armor.

    Absolutely. I know what the answer is, but there is a process I need to go through to mentally get there. I'm lucky that most friends/family members have been supportive and understanding, but the few friends who have been like "this isn't fair to him/you're hurting him by staying/he would want to know so he can move on" etc. just aren't getting it (or getting me and how I approach this as a person with a certain traumatic past that creates additional barriers). Also, he does know, he is just fighting the truth to the bitter end.

    Hope you're doing okay man. You know we're here.
     
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