One of the worst things of the modern internet era is people saying the worst thing they can think of but then ending it with “but that’s my opinion man! You’re entitled to yours too!” people who do that are missing the entire point
Also I think the most telling thing is that Ryan came in and liked the post that was like “a little forgiveness would be nice!!” yeah Ryan I get it you don’t care about actually doing better you just want to be forgiven with no accountability behind it I get itttttt
and see if I really was this monster who relentlessly attacks people I would have posted that in his thread. And tagged him.
There’s a huge thing in my local music scene where people are calling out their rapists and abusers who participated in hardcore and poppunk shows 2007-2019 and this tweet just resonates with all adults including what’s happening in the Ryan key thread
Guaranteed that threads biggest concern is that you might’ve scared him off and they are mad at the possibility of getting no direct interaction with him again
yeah last night i was like "wow i wonder if he saw her posts?" and then i saw that. thought my eyes got stuck in the back of my head
Oh 1000000% And to that I say if a grown man can’t handle ONE persons criticism (that came before he was even there- I clearly wouldn’t be such an asshole if he was regularly hanging out in there god damn) then he’s too fragile to be on the Internet or in a position with a platform ANYWAY Which basically brings me full circle because his past behavior has proved that to me 10x over if he wants to shoot himself in the foot by not connecting with the few fans he actually has, then he’s the dumbass here not me
They don’t know what anything actually is, they just use the trigger words and assume their base also doesn’t know anything
Also yeah like the fact that he doesn’t even care enough to even pretend to engage with me and also co-sign the post thats like “maybe it’s not about you!” As if I’m not the literal only person in the thread talking shit Be an adult Ryan You can just like have a conversation with me
i was just going to bring this up! like how are you gonna post an apology, obviously see someone not accept it and list reasons why, and then not even try to reach out and see their perspective, or even give a more detailed apology specific to the points you brought up. it just doesn't look good to me. apologizing and acknowledging is just a first step, and i think he really missed a perfect chance to get to the next one typing this gave me MAJOR deja vu
I just keep backtracking and going over it because the way it played out is so absurd lmao like. I know that overall the world is a better place when people are nicer. No one would deny that. But no one goes around telling men they should be less harsh when they speak plainly. I believe that my initial response to Ryan wasn’t harsh at all, I plainly stated I appreciated his effort but that it wasn’t enough but that I wish him the best I’m just like what was harsh about that? Asking him to stop suing a dead person? but no. It’s about the fact that I didn’t just accept an apology and as a woman I just feel like that’s such a constant theme where you’re pressured to accept men’s apologies without ANY evidence of changed behavior or anything. And then I come back around to why tf does anyone care what I say when it has nothing to do with them! And it’s because they just wanted him to come back. Made even more clear by the “please keep connecting with your fans that support you!!” Comments sorry you’re so starved for attention from him that you think you have to shut me down to impress him. I PROMISE you’re doing his diva behavior no favors.
Well this is this person’s opinion regarding Chad Gilbert of NFG so fuck this guy and his opinions are a joke Re: people voicing Chad’s abusive behavior
Right? Because it’s a performative apology lol He wants to do the bare minimum and be rewarded for it Pretty par the course for white dudes especially famous ones