I've seen the actual owner of this site be more of a jerk to people on several occasions than you, which just reinforces that there's an accepted group of vocal people here and those that are labeled antagonistic and rude while doing the same thing. The double standard infuriates me. If A1 didn't exist I wouldn't be here anymore.
This is the most accurate thing I’ve ever read and honestly thank you so much. Idk what I would do without you guys but also THIS IS SO FUCKING TRUE ITS SO INFURIATING
I don’t know how to usefully get involved in that thread but holy shit. The entire first half of Garrett’s second post is textbook bullying. Acknowledging your bias DOES NOT GET YOU OFF THE HOOK
I haven't had it in a long time but I'm not above it Remember those hot dogs that had cheese in them? Ngl I feel like I can almost remember how they taste
I know it’s like half joking but the gaslighting comments are real and that’s why I just keep profusely thanking you all because without your reminders that I’m not going crazy or interpreting it wrong, I would be even more wrecked rn. It just means so much
And I don’t like this overall accusation from people that I’m just this horrible aggressive person who “relentlessly attacks” people. no one literally no one has ever reached out privately in any capacity to talk about my behavior, a conversation/fight, nothing I’m not some person who feels they are above criticism. If people, especially people I felt like actually cared about me, came to me and tried to talk about something I said or behavioral habits or whatever the case may be, I believe that I would listen.
I’m really sorry this this all happening. It’s that “group of boys” mentality. If one person is held accountable then everyone else will have to start being more empathetic and they just don’t want to do that
We value you here and love having you here. Your voice is needed and appreciated. The fact that people like your posts in the accountability thread and then turn around and attack you when you're in certain threads for *insert problematic artist here* is the exact kind of hypocrisy you're calling out.
thank you. I need a hug man this shit is so wild and dumb this place likes to pretend constantly that it’s sooo much better than Reddit and LOFUCKINGL at that notion
You’re going to make me cry but in seriousness sometimes I do stay out of “spite” as in feeling like people NEED to hear what I have to say even if they don’t WANT to hear it. Especially when so many of them act like they are all ears to hear things and they’re really just..not
all you gotta do is mention blink 182 because apparently this site refuses to acknowledge the bad that one dude does like flirt with the alt right constantly