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I am curious

 

I feel this so much!!! I have also slowly come around to identifying as Demi as well haha. Thanks boo

 

It's complicated
I memorized the outfits she wore in every video

 

yaaasssssssssssss twinsies

 

When I was a teen I liked the part with the ice block

re: "Complicated"

 

Also you literally just made me make the connection that makes SO MUCH SENSE of why I didn’t feel like ~really queer ~ because I felt it didn’t come from a place of sexual attraction. No shit ya dumb bitch cause you’re Demi!!!

 

Well we can do next year too, I didn't forget Cam.

I might bring a friend but I should be there.




Get your shit together @EmmanuelSCastle

 

i remember getting in trouble for watching the Doin’ It video by LL Cool J

 

Man, I just had a weird moment. This thought of “I should check Bumble” came up and seconds later, a notification for it appeared.

 

Precisely Cups

 

FUCK YEAH

Just wait until you get the invalidation because of that exact reason lolololololololol it's so fun

But really, there are some good fb groups on it

And if you're okay with the BadChristian world, there's an LGBTQIA group I admin within that universe that I'd be happy to add you to

 

I mean...yes??? Kinda??? Right?
I mean I’ve never been so maybe I’m way off but from what I understand it’s like a free for all between a bunch of diff venues and most of them are bars and have at least some seats. Like it’s not a stand all day and walk around all day festival at all.

 

Toxic Britney infested my mind in 2004 and I never complained

 

I had the exact same thing happen to me!! My family especially would be like are you gay? And make jokes about it but I was like FUCK OFF I am just terrified of intimacy and the idea of kissing this guy who asked me out is almost sickening to me but I 100% never thought it was because I wasn't straight and I literally have no idea how I didn't know. Like the nausea I felt at being with a guy I thought I just couldn't do intimacy.

I did a lot of inventory on my past and saw all the ways in which my queerness was quietly manifesting itself and instead of seeing that as something embarrassing or something I overlooked I now find it empowering, and I see myself not realizing for so long as a sign that society as a whole really never even told me that I could ever explore that for myself. I was in the gay straight alliance and would participate in days of silence for LGBTQ and stand up for my gay friends (of which I had PLENTY) and yet it never once occurred to me that....that could be me? And I feel sort of cheated by that, but the way I ultimately knew I was gay was when I saw my soon to be (first and only) girlfriend for the first time and we made eye contact there was this instantaneous bolt of lightning that went through me and was like oh my god I will be with her. It was so sudden but the culmination of it was a LIFETIME.

Every journey is different, don't put a label on it if you don't want to!! I think bi* wasn't the right word for me even though when I came out it's what I used, so sometimes I say I'm gay even though I'm in a relationship with a guy? But really the word doesn't matter because the people that love you and care about you put your vocabulary into context and don't really care all that much, because it's ultimately just a word and you're a person with a lot of complicated and evolving feelings.

Queer sounds right to me because it's like the no frills attached way of saying I am into whoever I am into, binary/nonbinary/guy/girl/gay/straight/whatever lol. I feel like bi has evolved to include a lot more than a gender dichotomy but a lot of people only hear I like boys and I like girls 50%/50% when they hear bi, not all the other stuff that could go along with it.

Don't feel forced to put yourself into a box, just relax and enjoy the ride and remember you're probably putting more judgement on yourself than anybody else ever could. One of the things I respect most about you is your ability to be who you are and not give a fuck and that's powerful!!

*if me and my bf didn't work out I don't know if I would even date a guy again but this is me putting myself in a box

 

Are you sure about this? Genuine question.

 

I'm trying to mess with my LinkedIn more just to increase my appeal as a job applicant but idk really how to use it. People share Business Articles and I will never be a person who cares about such things

 

Ugh if all of you go next year like 2 months after I move I’ll be so mad!!!!
Also YEAH get your shit together @EmmanuelSCastle

Oh boy.....
What is the BadChristian world lol

 

It's a podcast/community run by the guys in Emery - it's like a post-Christian community. It's pretty dope. The dudes on the podcast are a bit behind, but the majority of the community is pretty progressive. And welcoming. And awesome. They're like my second family

 

thank u for bringing this to our attention emailmypussy

 

I have a LinkedIn profile up just for show at this point.

When I was in college I was basically a heathen for not giving a fuck about it, they made us make a LinkedIn profile but I don't ever do anything on mine except for like a bunch of companies I would apply to and get added by a bunch of random headhunters for shitty sales jobs.

For future employers it can't hurt to *have* it at least.