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Accountability in Music • Page 996

Discussion in 'Music Forum' started by OhTheWater, Nov 14, 2017.

  1. Murph

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  3. Anyone attempting to silence Aiyana in private should be fucking ashamed of themselves. Is this really the kind of person you want to be?

    Just PM me instead. We shared the article, this entire thread supports her voice and incredibly reasonable asks, and she doesn't need your scare tactics. Fuck off.
     
  4. iCarly Rae Jepsen

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  5. Dan Boeckner being part of the touring band makes so much sense, predators gotta stick together.
     
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  6. Damn, completely forgot about this. He was just a guest on the Guys podcast, too.
     
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  7. He's touring here in Ireland soon and I'm just like... fuck, man. I'd have jumped at this a while ago.
     
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  8. Meghin

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  11. jciswhatis

    Ugh, I hate America. Supporter

    The reason he says the band split up is copy/pasted below:

    "And this guy like comes into my house in the middle of the night, corners his wife in my kitchen and spits in her face. And then retracts four or five steps back and has some type of episode, which I’ve never seen out of somebody before in my entire life.

    And then starts screaming and running around my house for help. And it alarmed my wife. She woke up and she’s like, ‘What’s going on?’ And I’m like, ‘I’ve heard him scream for help before.’ I’m going to go see what’s going on.

    But ultimately, I’m not 20-years-old. I’m not going to turn a blind eye to domestic violence. I’m not going to turn a blind eye to like improper behavior. You know, when shit happens, you fucking handle it. And in that scenario, I didn’t know what happened. I separated them, I brought them down to my studio. I asked him specifically what the fuck is going on.

    And I, is there anything I need to know? And he was just like, ‘Oh my marriage’, this and that. And I’m like, ‘cool.’ I go upstairs. I asked Dany what’s going on. She tells me the truth.

    I actually pull up the camera footage in front of her and I see exactly what was said. He spit on me. He threw a fit. I was trying to calm him down the whole 9. And to be totally honest with you, that’s what fucking happened.

    Later on, you know, he tried to change. I went back downstairs. I said, ‘I’m disappointed in you.’ And he’s like, ‘I didn’t spit on her face. I spit at her feet.’ And I’m like, ‘Why are you spitting in my house in general?’ If you’re going to lie about it, you know? And the honest to God truth is, you’re not going to insult me. I asked him to leave immediately. He left. And at that point, the rest is history."
     
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  14. Zilla

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    Jesse must have really had a thing for both underage women and sleeping with the girlfriends of people he knew.
     
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  16. probably stupid but ive been thinking about bn and their relationship with the press and how it makes a LOT more sense that they were cryptic and unreachable given how badly Jesse wanted to keep all of his teenage relationships a secret

    it's almost like it's a design not a bug
     
  17. JordanTheGirl420420

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    Both are a power thing so it checks out. He’s such a piece of trash
     
  18. JoshIsMediocre

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  19. phaynes12

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  20. digitalsea

    hate my favorite band

    I knew about the Derrick’s fiance thing, but I had no idea they were cousins.
     
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  21. HarmonyinC Apr 8, 2025 at 5:38 PM
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    HarmonyinC

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    I believe he’s quoted in the book Where Are Your Boys Tonight saying something similar. About how they played some festival and Brand New assholes and it seemed like they thought they were “above” the other bands. But Brian was relatively normal.

    The writer of the Alt Press cover story (in like 2004?) is also quoted in the book basically saying the band were all assholes to her, except Brian.* She was assigned to spend an evening hanging out with and interviewing them. And they mostly ignored her. But then Jesse tried to flirt with her later on into the night. In hopes that she would write a more positive story about them. Idk, wouldn’t it have been easier to just not be an asshole from the beginning?

    *For the record, I don’t think Brian having basic manners means he’s better than the other members of the band.
     
  22. iCarly Rae Jepsen

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  23. manoverboard365

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    This also reminds me of when Brand New were booked to play Bamboozle 2007 and when TBS came on as a late addition BN got so angry that TBS were billed higher that they whined to have their set be at 11am so they could leave as soon as possible.
     
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  24. HarmonyinC

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    I’m pretty sure TBS had more commercial success back then, so of course they were billed higher.

    Wasn’t that also the show when they played Degausser twice? I’m sure the festival organizers loved that.
     
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  25. David87

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    I'd have to double check but I feel like I remember one of the AAR guys (maybe Tyson?) saying something about how shitty Jesse/BN was in Where Are Your Boys Tonight. Could be mistaken though
     
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