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Accountability in Music • Page 908

Discussion in 'Music Forum' started by OhTheWater, Nov 14, 2017.

  1. digitalsea

    hate my favorite band

    Ahh here’s the weekly bullshit in here with someone trying to pick a fight over whether something is brought up enough. Jesus fucking Christ
     
  2. Penlab Jan 30, 2025
    (Last edited: Jan 30, 2025)
    Penlab

    Prestigious Supporter

    Where?

    Edit: Did a search and while there have been conversations about this in the past, it looks like that's regarding serial cheaters, not cheating in general.
     
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  3. JoshIsMediocre

    peak middle management Moderator

    this is all dumb and we can just stop now
     
  4. Fucking Dustin

    Tell me what I missed Supporter

     
  5. Were those men being called out for something in addition to cheating? Were they serial cheaters, emotional abusers? Did they groom someone? What examples are you citing, and from how long ago?

    All this to say, these conversations evolve over time (as they should) and context matters. I can already see where you're coming from and I can tell you it's not a gendered thing, because A LOT of people are not happy about Phoebe's lack of action or comment regarding the Marshall Vore allegations. Similarly, if Phoebe habitually cheated on her partners and they spoke up about how they were treated, I'm pretty sure folks in here would not be so quick to give her a pass on that behavior. But until we have information like that to consider, I'm not going to waste my time trying to evaluate the personal relationships of someone I will probably never meet or associate with.
     
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  6. JoshIsMediocre

    peak middle management Moderator

    aaron pls no
     
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  7. digitalsea

    hate my favorite band

    MOD FIGHT!!
     
  8. sometimes, people need to know their assumption is incorrect (this goes for myself as well)

    everybody gets one
     
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  9. Penlab

    Prestigious Supporter

    Josh just wants peace in our time.
     
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  10. Greg

    The Forgotten Son Supporter

  11. Greg

    The Forgotten Son Supporter

    So is Aaron the Ultron here?
     
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  12. I don't know what the fuck that is and I don't like it
     
  13. Michael Belt

    metadata incarnate Supporter

    do you wanna be robot James Spader or not?
     
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  14. Greg

    The Forgotten Son Supporter

    Not a Marvel guy?
     
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  15. Nope, but I could be a robot James Spader guy
     
  16. Greg

    The Forgotten Son Supporter

    Peace in our time.
     
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  17. iCarly Rae Jepsen

    run away with me Platinum

     
  18. Dog Fish

    Mutt

    One band’s sub is certainly buzzing right now.
     
  19. digitalsea

    hate my favorite band

    Starting it off early this month, huh?
     
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  20. We should put a moratorium on Brand New talk in here until something actually happens. Please.
     
  21. irthesteve

    formerly irthesteve Prestigious

    I tried saying that years ago and got chewed up for it
     
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  22. JoshIsMediocre

    peak middle management Moderator

    People can change
     
  23. irthesteve

    formerly irthesteve Prestigious

    I was chewed out, Josh, did you not hear me?!?!!!!!!!
     
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  24. JoshIsMediocre

    peak middle management Moderator

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  25. irthesteve

    formerly irthesteve Prestigious

    maybe I just need a hug
     
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