Accountability in Music • Page 691

yeah seems like most people are ignoring it or assuming he won’t participate instead of actually addressing it

 

regardless of your intentions repeatedly contacting the person you abused is extremely fucked up.

 

that’s the weirdest part of the “apology.” “she asked me to quit contacting her and i respect that and every time i contacted her i swear i had a good reason” when the emotional abuser doesn’t understand they’re emotionally abusing someone

 

I mean like people said probably not “cancelled” here but also when Heroin reunited people found out one of the guys was a Nazi the literal same day so, no

 

Instagram isn’t loading for me for some reason

 

Good lord, this was a wild read

 

Not kidding, that is probably one of the most insane “statements” I have ever read, and also the most gaslightey. Holy hell.

 

I think above all else, the guy who made that statement is really obnoxious.

 

not reading all that, happy for you, sorry that happened, etc

 

one of the worst statements I have ever seen

 

that kinda rocked

 

Tucker Carlson's new favorite guitarist.

 

"I quit hardcore: what! no! fuck you!" you're 45

 

lol dude was all "i've gone to therapy I've worked on myself I'm improved" and immediately switches to "you're brain is a gaping sewer every book says you're fucking deranged I will fight you in a mosh pit"

 

The gaslighting in that makes my blood boil.

 

Dude says he works with women who have experienced violence, I sincerely hope that isn't true for those womens sake. That was an absolute wild ride from "I'm in therapy and see how I could have been abusive" to "she was a meaningless person that I never cared about and you are all fucking hypocrites who better not step to me or ill beat you/sue you/tell everyone you are deranged and obsessive". Dude came absolutely unhinged.

 

What the fuck was that...

 

He’s an OBGYN

 

He seems like the wrong person to be an OBGYN. Like the last person who should be an OBGYN.

 

hot cross is better anyway

dude comes across as totally narcissistic for sure - someone in the saetia should have talked him down from doing this, but oh well. they're seriously better off without him. it's the clearest example I've ever seen of how the response/denial only proves the validity of the allegation.

 

Jamie: I quit hardcore
Also Jamie: See you in the pit

 

I can guarantee you that did not rock for the person he abused.