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Accountability in Music • Page 65

Discussion in 'Music Forum' started by OhTheWater, Nov 14, 2017.

  1. iCarly Rae Jepsen

    run away with me Platinum

    No he's great, I think I worded it in the clearest way possible
     
  2. Aregala

    Blistering Guitar Lead

    oh yeah you definitely did I had just quickly glanced and freaked out
     
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  3. travisred Apr 13, 2018
    (Last edited: Apr 13, 2018)
    travisred

    Trusted Supporter

    Well with that context, is it possible Adam was only trying to get her to delete her tweet because it made it seem like she was raped by Cam? I just looked at the texts again. It doesn’t exactly seem like they wanted to silence her account entirely, just not confuse people. Maybe I’m reading it wrong.
     
  4. EASheartsVinyl

    Prestigious Prestigious

    Contacting her at all was completely inappropriate. She had every right to respond to that tweet, especially given the context of him trying to deny everything and lie about who he spoke to, making it seem as if she was included and a part of this denial. Trying to control her to make them look better really gives insight into this same pattern of behavior.
     
  5. travisred

    Trusted Supporter

    Yeah that’s fair, I didn’t really think of it that way. Like you said, they are in no position to try and limit what anyone has or wants to say. I do see how the tweet could lead to unwanted to speculation, but again clearly there is building context and evidence to abuse of some sort which Cam and Adam have no right to try and control the narrative.
     
  6. personalmaps

    citrus & cinnamon Prestigious

    I don't have much to add other than that I whole-heartedly agree with this. It's also incredible telling that most of the thread reads like an "I Told You So" from someone who has not always been the best representative of the mental health field imo.
     
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  7. cwhit

    still emperor emo Prestigious

    I told Alex this earlier, but too much of emo/diy seems to be focused on looking “cool” in a scene that’s inherently uncool to begin with
     
  8. personalmaps

    citrus & cinnamon Prestigious

    It's wild to me how far people will go to maintain social capital/control in a scene that's supposed to be about community.
     
  9. cwhit

    still emperor emo Prestigious

    i see sooooo much of that by like, just random members in the community. Photographers that really try to get close to every band member, and then just do their best to start bands. Idk, people just TRY ask hard to be involved when really all you need to do is be a nice person and be community oriented
     
  10. US Camera

    A Humble Snail Prestigious

    The rules of DIY are to have fun and do your best
     
  11. iCarly Rae Jepsen

    run away with me Platinum

    That should be the rules of everything
     
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  12. swboyd

    are we still lucky to be here? Prestigious



    Not sure how to link to the specific podcast episode, but the latest episode of Invisibilia deals with a case of a callout of abusive behavior in the Richmond hardcore scene. It's an interesting listen that I'm still forming an exact opinion on...

    Edit: That worked. Yay
     
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  13. EASheartsVinyl

    Prestigious Prestigious


    Oh wow. I don’t have an hour to spare now but I will definitely have to listen to this. Who is it talking about?
     
  14. swboyd

    are we still lucky to be here? Prestigious

    Emily Nixon from ICE.
     
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  15. US Camera

    A Humble Snail Prestigious

    That she was called out? Interesting

    The RVA/NJ/LI hardcore scenes are the fucking worst
     
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  16. cwhit

    still emperor emo Prestigious

     
  17. ncarrab

    Prestigious Supporter

    It's right here.

    Sorority Noise Cancel Tour Following Sexual Assault Allegation [UPDATE]

    Update (5 p.m.): As of today, Sorority Noise have been dropped by their publicists. “We are not working with them anymore,” a representative for PR firm Brixton Agency said in a statement to Spin. When reached for comment, Sorority Noise’s manager said, “We have nothing else to say beyond the statement posted on Twitter at this time.”
     
  18. xapplexpiex

    sup? Supporter

    I’m definitely checking out this album.
     
  19. personalmaps

    citrus & cinnamon Prestigious



    A certified Very Bad Look from PT.

    Edit: I feel it’s super important to point out that since Sheridan posited herself as Evan’s ultimate rehabilitation savior, it takes on a much darker light when considering her organization seems to have blackmailed him into making a statement on a situation that should have been kept private for Scene Clout.
     
  20. I don't know any of these names and feel pretty confused. Anyone have a quick rundown?
     
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  21. Kiana

    Goddamn, man child Prestigious

    So is Punk Talks an organization of therapists that works with musicians? I'd never heard of them before this
     
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  22. Joe4th

    Memories are nice, but that's all they are. Prestigious

    Yikes, so they pressured Evan to make that weird statement?
     
  23. SamLevi11

    Prestigious Prestigious

    Haven’t people known previously that PT is run by a known emotional abuser? I thought I read that a while ago so I take anything said with a pinch of salt.
     
  24. sophos34

    Prestigious Supporter

    wait THATS what happened? yo what the fuck?
     
  25. sophos34

    Prestigious Supporter

    i remember hearing something along these lines a while back, maybe not emotionally abusive but definitely not who they appeared to be. i never really followed them closely and thought they got rid of the person in the organization who was doing something wrong, but i guess it was the person running it and they never left or anything
     
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