Accountability in Music • Page 324

Discussion in 'Music Forum' started by OhTheWater, Nov 14, 2017.

  1. personalmaps

    guppy Supporter

    If y’all saw Lisa Cimorelli’s social media presence, I think you would agree that Chad is still being a creepy weirdo.
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  2. SmithBerryCrunch

    Trusted Prestigious

    How so?
  3. personalmaps

    guppy Supporter

    She literally acts like a teenager and spends all of her time making goofy Insta stories. Totally fine, but uhhh hard to see what 40 year old Chad finds interesting about it other than her being young and impressionable.
  4. SaveTheEarth

    Lucipurr Supporter

    You're assuming her online persona is the same as how she is. I see Instagram famous people the same as actors/entertainers. All I'm saying is we shouldn't speak for her as to whether or not their relationship is "okay" when as far as we know she is an adult in a consensual relationship.
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  5. Drew Beringer

    @drewberinger Moderator

    I’m exactly the same offline as I am online
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  6. SaveTheEarth

    Lucipurr Supporter

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  7. phaynes12

    playing in the band Supporter

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  8. Kiana

    Goddamn, man child Prestigious

    I'm even more of a loser offline probably. Gotta stay on brand!

    But tbh yeah maybe their relationship is fine and healthy and great. But I don't blame others espesh women for being skeptical of his current situation given his past. Toxic ppl never changing their spots or stripes or something!
  9. SaveTheEarth

    Lucipurr Supporter

    No doubt about that. It just bothered me that people here are basically assuming she's not mature enough to make these judgements on her own when she is an adult and they have no idea the back story of how this all came to fruition. I think it's a bit sl*t shamey to belittle a woman for dating someone older.
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  10. somethingwitty


    I’ve been in a relationship (male/male) for the last 6yrs, met my bf when he was 31 and I was 19. It’s possible to have a healthy relationship with a large age gap. Granted, there are scumbags out there but it’s dangerous to assume that because there’s an age gap that one party is grooming or taking advantage of the other.
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  11. iCarly Rae Jepsen

    I was walking with a ghost Supporter

    I don't blame the woman but any guy who only dates younger raises a red flag, but it sucks when the women feel the need to defend themselves
  12. fiftyshadesofchad


    He's a serial cheater that's obsessed with trying to sleep with 'famous' people. Then he gets bored and tries to fuck someone new. Rinse repeat. Pretty scummy dude.
  13. maryp1603


    Did you really create an account called “fiftyshadesofchad” just to spew vitriol about a musician on a forum? Grow up.
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  14. fiftyshadesofchad


    No I created an account to say that Chad is a serial cheater who uses women to chase fame.
  15. St. Nate

    We were just talkin' bout the Jesus. Prestigious

    From what I can observe, many men like the idea of dating much younger women because it's easier. This is especially true with someone who just became "legal." This idea of "easiness" is what makes these relationships problematic.
  16. Kiana

    Goddamn, man child Prestigious

    I had an age gap relationship when I was 17-19ish. He liked my young age because frankly I was dumb and naive and it was easy. I really relate to Taylor Swift's Dear John because that's exactly how it felt. As young girls we're taught we rly should be grateful if any male is interested in us, but when they're older that's just the cherry on top. Because they're older and cool and finally someone sees how "mature" you are. You'll keep giving away little pieces of yourself to maintain that. Gotta keep being "not like the other girls" and stay in ur lane so he doesn't say with disdain how young and immature u are if u ever disagree or push back, which he'll do if u ever question anything. The men are typically very stunted themselves, which is saying a lot for men who can already be particularly stunted. For me, as a young girl/woman I was more ready to put up with their bs. 17 year old me was ready and willing to do whatever it took to please. 27 year old me has more confidence and self worth.

    Idk man. It's a story as old as time. And idk anything about Chad or his gf now or anything like that, but I feel like a man who is okay with being in that kind of relationship where the power imbalance is so off is a red flag. They don't just stop when that relationship stops. So I'm not gonna judge his gf or her life or whatever cause I truly don't know her and it's not her fault, but I'm still gonna be skeptical af of him. Men like that have patterns.

    And again idk her and have never heard of her so I'm speaking generally, but I do think there is something larger to be said how women often do market themselves as youthful and childlike. That doesn't exist in a vacuum. We can talk about it from Britney Spears to Ariana Grande. Why do men value our youth so much? Why is that so important for women to maintain? Why is "barely legal" such a common search term? Idk it's all connected for me.
  17. tyramail

    Trusted Supporter

    How long have they been together?
  18. SmithBerryCrunch

    Trusted Prestigious

    End of March last year, according to this.
  19. personalmaps

    guppy Supporter

    Don’t get it twisted, the only person I’m shaming is Chad Gilbert, who divorced his first wife to pursue a teenager, and then cheated on his second wife multiple times. Lisa is fine I just don’t want her to get chewed up by this weirdo.
  20. Blainer93


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  21. Martina Sep 13, 2019
    (Last edited: Sep 13, 2019)


    From the Washington Post:

    What’s it like to be a woman in rock today? The question is part of the problem.
    By Travis M. Andrews

    And on another topic, from Buzzfeed News:

    The latter article has nothing to do with the music scene directly, but it's fascinating to read it and numerous similar stories about Epstein and the general "modus operandi" of the key players involved and match up dates with what we know of so many Warped Tour-related scandals involving bands and their respective MOs. The same tour is mentioned in the Washington Post article, with none of the problems we remember mentioned, as is the case for essentially every other story we read on similar parts of the music scene in the mainstream and music press.

    Add a few years to the age of Epstein's victims and knock several zeros off of what he spent maintaining his stable of them and you'd have the hospitality budget and average age of many of the women in the entourage of bands from that time, victimized by musicians and others in the music scene at about the same time.

    At least we know we've come a long way since then, right?
  22. iCarly Rae Jepsen

    I was walking with a ghost Supporter

  23. Anthony_

    A Dork Prestigious

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  24. He used to attempt to DM my friends younger sister (she literally had her age in her bio) with some creepy shit back in like 2014.

    Dude was literally double her age. I think he’s like mid 30s now?
    He’s a fucking piece of trash

    Edit: he’s 37 now.
  25. iCarly Rae Jepsen

    I was walking with a ghost Supporter

    I knew about the assault charge but didn't know he was one of the way too many artists who used Warped Tour to prey on teenagers