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Accountability in Music [ARCHIVED] • Page 1037

Discussion in 'Music Forum' started by OhTheWater, Nov 14, 2017.

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  1. awakeohsleeper

    I do not exist.


    What is going on with CCM?! Bo is a former member of the band needtobreathe. He also posted a deleted story with an image including his brother (still in the band) and the caption 'sexual abuser'.
     
  2. Penlab

    Prestigious Supporter

    Ah no, really? Fucking fuck.
     
  3. Nyquist

    I must now go to the source Supporter

    That’s so damn disappointing. I think Tait will end up being a snowball effect.
     
  4. theagentcoma

    linktr.ee/jordansmith.author Prestigious

    geez
     
  5. HelloThisIsDog

    Trusted

    My mom got two pastors from my church growing up fired for being inappropriate with me. The church and abuse have always gone hand in hand, no matter how seemingly mild.

    TW First guy was the music pastor who kept going up behind me and massaging my shoulders. The other guy was a youth pastor intern who sent me AIM messages regarding his privates. At the time I didn’t think much of those instances, mostly because I was like 12 and found the massages annoying and the AIM messages funny, but shout out to my mom (RIP miss you) for seeing creepy shit and immediately acting on it. That is sooooo incredibly mild compared to what others have gone through and were subjected to for years. This shit, especially in the church where you are supposed to have an implicit sense of trust, needs to be called out.
     
  6. Fucking Dustin

    Tell me what I missed Supporter

    I JUST finished reading Crying In H Mart yesterday

    Checked this thread right after and saw the posts about the AI stuff

    Extreme milkshake duck moment for me
     
  7. Nyquist

    I must now go to the source Supporter

  8. Tim

    all of this is temporary Supporter

  9. HankThePigeon

    Regular

    RE: the NTB stuff, that's rough. I saw them on probably their first major your (opening for Jars of Clay), talked to the band about my Johnny Cash shirt, and got their first album autographed. I've seen them 3 or 4 times since and have talked to the band members a few times.
    Tough to think about those good memories being built on music that was created in an abusive situation.
     
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  10. iCarly Rae Jepsen

    run away with me Platinum

     
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  12. AgonizingFir

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    yeah, no surprises that the CCM industry is full of losers and creeps. my wife dated a guy in a christian rock/reggae band for awhile back in the day and he was one of the worst people she ever knew and definitely didn’t walk the walk
     
  13. sleepwellbeast

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    It’s a crazy life hack that you can be absolutely terrible and just say “Jesus” and they have to accept you and enable you.
     
  14. AgonizingFir

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  15. AgonizingFir

    Currently Distracted Supporter

    but i’d rather not
     
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  16. elphshelf

    100% made of farts Supporter

    I wouldn’t call this a milkshake duck but it’s a massive unforced error at best.
     
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  17. Amal

    Newbie

    was so excited about the cab touring again but i do not want to buy tickets for all time low
    [​IMG]
     
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  18. awakeohsleeper

    I do not exist.

    Bear has posted a response. A lot of Christian language. Sounds like a horrific situation that they both went through. Hard to know what happened between them as brothers.
     
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  19. seimagery

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    "Hurt by things in our early teen years as well", and does not elaborate or address the claim of abuse beyond "misleading". Yadda yadda, God's love and mercy, need my prayer warriors, blah blah blah. Christians love to parrot the same bullshit and it's accepted because it's "sin", and well, we are ALL sinners! I am not without empathy, whatever happened is clearly horrific.
     
  20. CellarGhosts

    Trusted Prestigious

    the CCM industry burning to the ground would in fact be a very, very good thing.
     
  21. genericities

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    I won’t say more but tbh I’ve never trusted her as an artist/person

    she’s made some great music tho, first LBL and first JB records
     
  22. iCarly Rae Jepsen

    run away with me Platinum

     
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  24. Cameron

    FKA nowFace Prestigious

    Based af
     
  25. youll be fine

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