Sorry if I am coming across like a dick, but it’s been a month. I think it’s time to let that ship sail. If there’s one thing I’ve learned about tinder, it’s that matches mean next to nothing haha. Of all the matches I’ve had in the last couple years (which aren’t many) I think I’ve met two people. It’s just not a good platform for dating if that’s what you are looking for
I’ve had plenty of matches ghost me on Tinder and honestly, it’s probably for the better when you think about it. Like if someone doesn’t want to maintain a basic initial conversation with you beyond a few messages, then it was not meant to be.
when I would be using tinder I think if I didn’t get a response to a message after about 48 hours I just figured they weren’t interested/met someone else which is fine, because you are generally doing the same to them. I wouldn’t try to get too invested until I got a number from them.
Interesting what little things still trigger me. This guy is talking about recommending me some anime and my ex of FOREVER AGO enjoyed anime and showed me a few and I'm immediately like anxious and nope nope nope. Wish I could be nooooormal
To a point! But I think it can be interesting if both ppl are open. Like I told him for every recommendation he gives that I watch he has to watch a scary movie of my choosing so it evens out. But yeah idk with his guy. He's rly into anime and games and that's totally cool but I am not and idk I guess it depends how much it like consumes their life.