2 Dating 2 Relationships Thread II: The Squeakquel NSFW • Page 77

I've been sending her messages of reassurance throughout the day but she hasn't replied back and the fear of being ghosted is slowly starting to creep in as I've been noticing that she's been active on other platforms we follow each other on. She's probably just drained from conversation, which is totally understandable, but it feels so off to have someone who is starting to become a big part of your life just disappear. Maybe I'm just overthinking

 

as much as it hurts, just give her space for a couple days and then check back in.

 

The one whose name I can't quite remember. The one who I sort of shut down and was bluntly like yeeeah so I've been assaulted FYI. He messaged me today saying he's been busy. He asked if I was looking for a srs relationship cause he got those vibes from me and I said I had no specific expectations of anything. I'm not a hook up right away person but I also have commitment issues so its whatevs. We text consistently after that.

 

Was he a front runner (like something worth maybe meeting) out of all the chucklefucks you've been talking with?

 

That's what I'm thinking. It's weird, because we aren't officially a "thing" yet, but we obviously are seeing each other. It might be my self-esteem talking, but it's super easy to just ghost people in today's culture, so part of me thinks that she could also not be interested in me anymore/trying to focus on herself and doesn't "have" to tell me (bc the relationship is young) and leave by hinting silence. If we were further into the relationship, I wouldn't mind her being distant, but we're in the "what are we" stage so it makes me feel so weird about this situation.

 

Yeah we seem to have good convo and have chatted on the phone. I think we're gonna meet up when he's in town but he's not from here so I'm not banking on it being like a ~big thing. So far I've been chatting with him and the guy who spells his name ugly and both seem pretty okay so far.

 

I totally get it. I'm just worried you'll overdo it accidentally and cause a rift if there isnt one. I hope everything works out though!

You need to tell him he spells his name ugly and see how he reacts.

 

I completely get this but I definitely think it’s lose-lose if you don’t give her space. If she’s interested and you don’t give her space she could become disinterested and if she isn’t interested already continuing to text won’t change that. It sounds like she is interested from what you’ve posted so I’d just hang tight! Hope it ends up going ok!

 

Thank you y'all :] I'll try to remain optimistic and just distract myself in other ways.

 

Thank gawd I have men on apps to tell me how to eat

 

I read that as more inquisitive rather than judgemental

 

Shouldnt have said anything though, if he doesnt know what hes talking about. just sounds rude is all

 

I don't think it's judgemental I just have sooooo many people who have commented on it allllll the time and it's so old. Like. It's been my diet for 14 years. I got a handle on it. I've had enough bad faith faux concern discussions with ppl about it that I'm always like heavy sigh. It's not one or two ppl it's like 95% of ppl I encounter. Wow, never thought to eat protein before thanx!!! Lol it's not a deal breaker it's just always mildly condescending when someone tries to explain nutrition stuff to me unsolicited, espesh when they admit they don't know what they're talking about

 

We trying to talk produce because I’m about ranking them

 

Those thinly sliced "carrot chips" are underrated. Much less hard on my jaw than baby carrots.

 

i like them for that reason too

 

If we’re ranking produce the list has to start and end with brussel sprouts and cauliflower.

 

These are low tier

 

BRUH crispy pan fried Brussels sprouts are top tier

 

it pains me to say this, but @dylan is right.

 

Brussels sprouts made right are sooooo good. I was thinking about picking some up my next grocery trip

 

I haven’t had good Brussels sprouts then it sounds like.

 

cancelled

 

Asparagus is the best vegetable these are the facts