Cute girl had to reschedule as she got home last night feeling ill after seeing her friends, RIP :( Thanksgiving break is coming up, in which she will come home for the weekend and be only a few minutes away, compared to 40ish mins at her campus, so there's at least that to look forward to! Was looking forward to today tho :[
Apparently she toked up while I was at work and when it came around the time for me to get off work, she had an anxiety attack from smoking too much. I just went home instead lol
Update: Stopped talking with first match guy who I seem to have stuff in common with because he messages boring Guy with weird name is taking convo in a sexual direction which... Ugh lol. I get it's tinder and all, but when the convo isn't even going that direction at all and then they bring it up out of nowhere like...... Ok Guy whose name I can't remember is chill. He's not from here and is just gonna pass thru but that's fine. Hasn't been creepy or sexual (yet) and so I don't feel uncomfortable (yet)
I def have worn similar flannels with my girlfriend sometimes doing dumb dorky things like that as a couple is fun
if you dont perform genetic surgery to wear the same DNA strands as your partner, are you really dating?
I just found out that one of my sisters broke up with her boyfriend and he is legitimately like a brother to me and the thought of not having him in my life fucking sucks
Kind of think I have developed feelings for a friend, and I am quite enamoured with her. We have lots in common, she's interested in my day, and what I do, and she's crazy talented, and cute, but the kicker is that she lives far away, and I don't think she feels the same way. We taIk a lot, but it's in short bursts, which is like being on all time high then coming straight back down to earth when I don't hear from her. I want to tell her how I feel, but every time I try I just worry she'll take it the wrong way, and stop talking to me all together. If you were in my shoes, what would you suggest?
This sucks...Went through a similar situation when my sister and her ex broke up (granted, it was seven years ago - but I still think about him to this day). They have a son together, and it got REALLY messy after the break-up and they are very rarely on good terms but for the 10 years they were together prior to the break-up, he was 100% a brother to me. I was never all that close to my sister (she's six years older than me) until he came in the picture when I was about 18. My sister is now married and while her husband is fine, we don't have anywhere near the relationship that I had with her ex.
No name guy finally asked a sexual question tho he didn't do it on a creepy way. Lol I was just blunt like.... So I was in an abusive relationship where I was sexually assaulted soooo my guard is mega up and I have trust issues for days sooooo not a thing I do lightly. Like I'll hang out and talk and get to know someone but I'm not a hook up person. He wasn't rude about it but I'm sure it's not the typical expected tinder response lol but whatevs! I don't like talking about it but I feel like I should make that boundary known now and be clear because it's been an issue while dating in the past so we'll see how the convos go from here lol
Lol also I somewhat resent that I have to explain why I have boundaries. I mean this guy didn't make me divulge or anything, but in the past just setting that boundary alone hasn't ever been enough. Should just be able to be like naaaw not feeling it let's hang out for a bit first. But then it becomes like a Whole Thing. Which is dumb.