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2 Dating 2 Relationships Thread II: The Squeakquel NSFW • Page 44

Discussion in 'General Forum' started by dylan, May 12, 2019.

  1. CobraKidJon

    Fun must be always. Prestigious

    dating apps suck
     
  2. Taketimeandfind

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    As someone who has been with my wife since before smartphones were a thing, what’s that like? Like if I was single that shit would terrify me. But it also seems like it could be fun. Lol
     
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  3. CobraKidJon

    Fun must be always. Prestigious

    95% bots and like 5% actual people and it’s hard to impress with pictures and bios. It’s just the worst.
     
  4. Taketimeandfind

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    That’s kind of what I figured
     
  5. Dog with a Blog

    mangeur de cul Prestigious

    I feel like I’m sorta in love with this woman in the Bay Area but I’m hesitant to use that word cause it’s often met with expectations and is used in conjunction with some sort of commitment. But we have a really interesting dynamic where whenever we see each other, which is basically just when I’m in the Bay, we always pick up right where we left off. Like, the other day I went to her house and we greeted each other with a kiss and then we went out to breakfast with her friend and if you didn’t know any better you’d look at us and assume we’re in a relationship. She is just so easy to talk to and we constantly make each other laugh and the chemistry is seriously amazing but it’s also understood that it’s not ever gonna lead anywhere serious (I think) and when I’m away we barely ever talk to each other and just live our lives. She dates people, I do my thing. It’s like the perfect situation Weezer™️. I don’t really want to have a “what are we” conversation cause I really like what we are but I also think that I’m a little more than just physically attracted to her and want to be able to express that. Also, she has an 11 year old son so I think that’s partly why we are able to have the relationship we do without expectations. Was planning on telling her all this the other day but we went out to breakfast and her friend was there and then I didn’t get to see her again. I’m kinda just rambling now.

    TL;DR: I think I lowkey love this woman and want to tell her that but also don’t want our dynamic to change
     
  6. colorlesscliche

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    Yeah, that dynamic sounds good. Plus, she's Christian so you know she's a good gal.
     
  7. Dog with a Blog

    mangeur de cul Prestigious

    She’s not Christian !!

    This world ain’t big enough for two Christian moms
     
  8. Mrplum5089

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    Dating apps suck in my area cause if you wanna have any success you have to use tinder because the “better” ones (Hinge, OKC) have hardly any users near me
     
  9. Mrplum5089

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    Hopefully it’ll be better when I move to a more metropolitan area
     
  10. colorlesscliche

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    Please, we all know who you're talking about in that post.
     
  11. Dog with a Blog

    mangeur de cul Prestigious

    :cringe:
     
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  12. Dog with a Blog

    mangeur de cul Prestigious

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  13. Dirty Sanchez

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  14. Shakriel

    I'm just so tired of thinking about everything Prestigious

  15. Jacob

    The sum of n from 1 to 36 is pretty metal Prestigious

    If you don’t take them too seriously (which you shouldn’t) they’re fun. And you can actually meet someone significant even if you’re using them casually.
     
  16. DickyCullz

    Doesn’t have Ashley Madison

    My gf goes away for two weeks at a time so I have a solid two week play time then two weeks off when she’s back. It’s like having withdrawal symptoms every two weeks
     
  17. LessThanTrevor

    Vocals & Guitar for Less Than A Sea Prestigious

    I'm here to update everyone on my situation. My lady and I were talking and I was trying to work my way back to the therapy discussion to try and save our relationship for our sons sake more than anything, and we started talking about weight loss. Something I've been working on as well as herself. I told her I was doing it for me to feel good about myself, but also I feel like she wasn't attracted to me anymore so hopefully it'll help. She looked at me and said "Weight and looks has nothing to do with it. I'm not attracted to you as a person." Where the fuck do we go from here now? I feel like there's no coming back from that comment. Again we own a house together and have a kid together. We're engaged, but never married. I honestly don't know what to do. I don't want my son coming from a broken home, but I also don't want him thinking it's okay for someone to talk to another person the way she talks to me. I don't want him being in a toxic environment.
     
  18. Colby Searcy

    Is admired for his impeccable (food) tastes Prestigious

    What was your reaction/where did the conversation go after that?
     
  19. LessThanTrevor

    Vocals & Guitar for Less Than A Sea Prestigious

    I kind of just stood there going "oh okay." and just walked away hurt because I didn't want to say anything else in fear out of being hurt saying something I didn't mean. She's acting like the things she says and does don't have consequences. The conversation didn't go anywhere and she screamed at me because I was going to take our son to the park. I have no idea how to even handle it anymore.
     
  20. colorlesscliche

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    With a comment like that, there's no relationship there anymore. Do you have family nearby either you or her can go to while you figure out next steps?
     
  21. LessThanTrevor

    Vocals & Guitar for Less Than A Sea Prestigious

    My mother and father live five minutes from me. Her family lives 10 minutes away. It's funny that her family when we got engaged looked at me and said "she's your problem now." I thought that was a joke.
     
  22. colorlesscliche

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    I'd recommend NOT agreeing to anything until you meet with lawyers. She doesn't deserve to be bought out, you should figure out what the legal system suggests and do what's in your best interest. If you make more than her, child support will definitely be an issue, so you don't want to agree to buy her out of the house, and then be hit with that down the road as well. Definitely keep track of any texts, conversations, etc. that will be in your favor if things get ugly down the road.

    This situation sucks man, I've been through and it's no good.
     
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  23. iCarly Rae Jepsen

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    It would probably be more traumatic if his parents live together but can't talk to each other
     
  24. GrantCloud

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    After that comment I don’t think you can come back from that, you’ll have to spend some time a part I feel to gather yourself and figure out what each one of you want long term. If you are considering working on the relationship anyways.
     
  25. GrantCloud

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    Also I think you can still be good parents even if you are separated, but staying together forcing the relationship while exposing the child to a potentially toxic relationship seems like not a great idea either.
     
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