you know when she goes to college you're not just like "bye Soph have fun" right I know what you mean though
I used to think I really wanted kids. Now I’m in the 95% don’t camp. The other 5% being pressure to carry on my family name and also I do sorta like the idea of having kids but I do not like the idea of the responsibility that comes with that. I like being able to do whatever the fuck I want whenever I want
haha of course not. the idea of starting over with that is absurd though. y’all crazy af @Colby Searcy
Believe me I know. I keep getting these weird thoughts lately too of just saying "Fuck it, keep em coming"
i feel selfish. I know most people want kids. But I want that freedom of not having them. Money, time, etc. I want to be the coolest uncle and godfather and all that, but I don't know if I actually want to be a father. I'm also not very good at my own life, so I don't feel good about bringing another life into this world that's also my responsibility.
It’s ok to be selfish though. There is no rule book that says you have to have kids or that you should want to have kids. We also aren’t living in a time where you need kids who are gonna grow up to help take care of the farm or anything like that. Hot take: but sometimes I think it’s even more selfish to have kids. That depends on the situation obviously but I believe that scenario exists
I won't have kids (though in part because no one's foolish enough to like me that much) and neither will my sister. My parents have long since adjusted to that idea, never once asking either of us about kids, or maybe they just know they raised two shithead kids and assumed grandkids weren't part of the equation before either of us was old enough to leave home.
I asked my girlfriend what she would do if she found out she was pregnant. She pushed on her belly button and made an explosion noise. I love her lol