Thank you everyone who replied. After some thought and reflection harbouring negative thoughts is not the right way to deal with how I feel. I know that it's a time in my life that had a purpose, but they never intended to hurt me and I shouldn't think ill of them to spite my face. I do try to keep my mind active, but I do have a habit of ruminating thoughts, especially if I just lay in bed looking at my phone. I will be more pro active, and think of them more positively than how I have been lately, thank you.
Yoooooo I drunkenly slid into some girl’s DMs last night, someone I do not know, and she just hit me back with a “hi, ur adorable” that’s not how that’s supposed to work what do
Lol this girl is obsessed with my friend and will randomly text/dm him and I swear to god if she wasn’t someone that he actually new irl I’d say she was a bot. Who the fuck talks like this? Lol. And he never talks to her other than a simple reply so it makes it all the weirder.
if by “hitting on” they mean “asking generic questions and maybe accidentally unmatching when he pulled his phone out of his pocket” then yes also she did match and we were chatting nicely until the app wouldn’t let me reply. so either i don’t know how to phone or she deleted the app/had second thoughts.
well.. I am ready to get engaged (just bought the ring) but now my girlfriend tells me that she's changed her mind and wants to have kids... I don't really feel the same way. So yeah. I don't know what to think at all.
Damn, that sucks. Sorry man. Prior to this, she had always been on the same page? Why the change of heart? I guess it’s better she tell you this now though.
When we first started dating she said she didn't think she wanted them. I told her I definitely didn't. A couple weeks ago she hits me with "I kinda think I do want them" and then last night she said "I definitely do want them." I'm in the definitely don't want camp. I suppose there's a chance that in a couple years I will change my mind, but it's much more likely that I won't change my mind.
I mean, it definitely could be for me. If my partner wanted to have kids and I was staunchly against it or visa versa and we stuck together it could lead to a lot of resentment down the road