Why is “travel more” a common answer on the prompt “this year i want to…”. The year over half way over. Let’s be more creative
well, i do travel monthly. it's not that hard. no need to wait for someone else to travel with unless you want them to pay for everything.
My wife and I are doing ENM beginning this month and lemme tell ya it’s been the hardest month of our 19 year relationship.
dang, yes I will say that opening up something existing as opposed to going at it from a “solo poly” angle sounds extra intense. Best of luck my friend
Does anyone have advice on being abused before? I just got a subpoena that says I will be arrested or fined if I don't show up for my exes court date next week. She tried stabbing me and succeeded and then left town so she won't be there, I'm just confused why I have to go to the court date. They took pictures of my wounds and confiscated the weapon and have pics of that. I guess I'm just curious why they're allowed to arrest me if I don't show up even though I plan on being there
Oh man. There are so many dating profile tropes I’ve discovered. I only see women, so I don’t mean to sound sexist or anything, because I’m sure men have a million terrible cliches, but women here seem to love to highlight that they have a dark sense of humor, loyal to a fault and have a foul mouth. I purposely avoid anyone that says they’re “super blunt” because that usually means they want to a free pass to be mean. There’s a lot more, but I assume it’s mostly just people relying on AI to write their dating profiles.
I’ve seen many men say they’re “very sarcastic” or event blunt. Those men and women can find each other and date each other. I have a lot more too that I’ve seen. I also swipe left so fast if any guy mentions “getting off this app” bc like no shit. Or mentions that want “someone loyal” when the prompt is what they’re looking for- again no shit. We’re not out here looking for someone dishonest. The lack of effort is mind boggling sometimes. Men pushing 40 and they can’t hold a conversation or put effort in their profile
Not saying this is bad or a trope or anything but I came across a profile where they used the phrase “belly laugh” in every prompt. So it was something like “the way to win me over is: make me belly laugh”. And “this year I want to: belly laugh more” etc. Thought it was pretty funny. I mean who doesn’t want to laugh?
Another rare one where 99% of the comments are like "what the fuck are you talking about Stav? Terrible advice. This guy's fiance is right" lol