2 Dating 2 Relationships Thread II: The Squeakquel NSFW • Page 225

I’m gonna be blunt and say abandon ship and start healing while you can. That’s a recipe for some major hurt the longer you prolong it.

 

yeah probably but also I’ve been chasing this girl for four months now so it’s gonna be really hard not to

 

Is there any particular reason why she can't let herself be emotionally invested?

 

she’s probably moving back home (halfway across the country) early next year.


however after two days I’m pretty sure she’s getting extremely emotionally invested already so point is moot. whatever happens happens

 

I got the apps for two weeks and felt like less of a person because of it. Got a handful of matches, only one that showed any indication that she wanted to go on a date then just had me ask questions to her, never responded with any follow-up questions and just posted a ton on Threads. Gonna assume she just wanted the ego boost, so I unmatched. She goes to the same gym I go to, but we never met in person so that shouldn’t be a problem.


EDIT: Through Reddit, I did discover that there’s a local group on Facebook where friends can vouch for you and you can find people that are interested without the worry of the algorithm. Probably gonna give that a try within the month.

 

My favorite activity is paying for hinge and then never opening the app for the entire length of the subscription. I really need to cancel that lol

 

the girl I’m seeing was the first person I met up with IRL from hinge or any dating app ever in my life back in June. She had hinge installed for about 36 hours before getting overwhelmed and uninstalling. Moral of the story: this shit is pure luck

 

oops I think we fell in love

 

legend

 

But is this love for real? Did you let them in your arms to feel?

 

Play this for them

 

I already played where I want to be by the dangerous summer I need to cool it

 

On a serious note after the way my 9 year relationship went and ultimately ended I really never thought I’d find someone that makes me feel this way again or that I was even capable of feeling anything like this at all. it’s been a weird six months since I ended things with my ex. I did some messy shit over the last month or so but I’ve ultimately landed in a very good place in a very good situation. I know I said it was just luck that led me to this person I’m with but isn’t that how meeting anybody is? Just a right place right time thing? The apps can work

 

Yeah, I met my wife on an app on Christmas lol sometimes the timing is bizarre but it just works