2 Dating 2 Relationships Thread II: The Squeakquel NSFW • Page 224

Well the girl who left the comment texted me after like oops I didn’t know that was gonna be public. I was like hah it’s fine I didn’t think much of it. Then hours later the other girl texted me freaking out


But now the other girl just texted me pretty much saying it seemed like I was covering my tracks and I got very defensive so idk. I didn’t think it came across as defensive and everything I told her was the truth

 

Well I smoothed things over. Wild ride.

 

Had a first date planned for tonight, until she texted me this morning that she was too hungover and wanted to reschedule. I’m so damn over dating

 

I just started and I'm already over it, lol. I think I'm done texting this person, just no back and forth and takes forever, just not what I'm looking for as I'm pushing 40.

 

It’s wild how people don’t seem understand you're supposed to want the other person to like you

 

I can’t even get a match so maybe that’s a good thing lol

 

WHAT HAVE THEY DONE TO US

 

That's not a red flag, but it is certainly a yellow flag. Be wary with this one lol

 

At some point in the next month, I’m gonna get back on the apps and I’m not happy about it.

I had two consecutive summers where I met someone that clicked like crazy and then they tell me a lie about why they’re not available and have a boyfriend within the month. It’s been so defeating.

And I really fear the apps won’t be better, especially for a guy no longer in his 30s.

 

I’m addicted to red flags

 

she’s sleeping in my bed rn lmao

 

Dumbass

 

I’m “in a relationship”!

 

The scare quotes are because im scared

 

I felt pretty good and comfortable being single until I tried the dating apps again and now I want to be in a relationship just so I can get off them for good lol dating sucks who knew the arranged marriage cultures had it all figured out. Just let your parents do all the work

 

Met the person I was talking to for a good bit finally. Don't quite feel a spark, and think I need to tell her sooner than later. Conversation via text is just so dull and almost non existent, even though it was quite fun and easy in person. Oh well.

 

Sent it. Felt bad, but onward.

 

As they say in “Moneyball,” (figuratively) would you rather get a bullet to the head or five to the chest and bleed to death?

Definitely best to just say the tough thing than drag it out.

 

I feel like I need medication or an all day therapy session to talk myself out of my own head. I met this girl on a dating app who lives just down the road from me. We talked for awhile and met up at an emo night the next day. Talked until almost 2 in the morning and she was at my house almost every night for about a week straight. We're at a similar place. Both in the process of getting divorced and we had both just left another relationship.

We decided not to date but still did intimate things with eachother during this time before deciding to stop & just be friends because we know this is a rebound with a honeymoon period. We became pretty close friends. She was at my daughter's birthday party & our kids are really good friends now too. I know she's dating other people know and it's easier for her to get dates than it is for me (I wouldn't date myself right now) so I'm trying to be mindful that she's probably overwhelmed and can't just Snapchat with me throughout the day like when we first met. It's not even like we don't talk. I literally saw her twice on Saturday & we usually make time for eachother when we need it. I've just had this feeling of dread like I'm going to get left behind with no friends again even though I have no reason to feel this way. Anxious attachment sucks, y'all.

 

Over the last year I’ve become pretty good friends with a handful of the people in my department at work but one thing I’ve never encountered before is all the different group chats from these friendships.

We have a full department group chat and then there is a separate one with person A and person B, then one with person B and person C, another with D and E, another with A and E or A, D and E, etc. and it’s so confusing and overwhelming at times when people are responding to several of them simultaneously. It’s not like any are to talk shit about someone else in our department but for whatever reason people wanted to make separate ones and then I get added for whatever reason. I tried naming them so it would be easier to remember but that’s not really helping lol

I’m probably an outlier but I’ve always operated with either a big group chat with everyone in our friend circle/group or individual chats, never so many variables that spun off into their own chats so I find this kind of fascinating while also incredibly annoying

 

Broke up with my girlfriend and got posted in are we dating the same guy lmao. It was three weeks relax

 

Geeez

 

this caused a whole lot of problems for me with this other girl lol

 

girl I’m absolutely insanely crazy about wants to be “fuck buddies” but “can’t let herself get emotionally invested” and I hate myself just enough to be like fine by me who cares if I get hurt