2 Dating 2 Relationships Thread II: The Squeakquel NSFW • Page 223

it’s fuckin rough out here man. trying to emotionally disconnect from my previous relationship while simultaneously finding the online dating game exhausting and not even remotely worth my time. there has to be a better way, and from what I hear from my women friends, many of them would much rather have a man approach them IRL than use an app. Problem is, where tf am I supposed to be approaching these women?? My coworker suggested shitty dive bars in the part of the city I live in but my days off are Monday and Tuesday and the last time I went to one of those places on a Monday night there was hardly any sort of crowd to speak of, let alone one teeming with single women. Sucks working every single weekend and being the age where I’m too tired after work to actually go do anything.

 

Im right there with you. On almost every point you hit. In fact on Wednesday I did something I haven’t done in over 20 years and approached a woman and tried to start a conversation with the intention of getting to know them. Me and my brother had some drinks at a shitty dive bar and there was this group of friends that were like the only people there really. Nobody seemed to be “together” and it was a mix of women and men, some non heterosexual. It was outdoor and hot af and one of them had a water gun. So this girl turns around and pretends like she’s gonna shoot me so I say go ahead. We had a laugh of it. I didn’t want to approach her group but at the end of the night she was the only there. So I figured I’d try to introduce myself and the first thing out of her mouth was “well that’s a lame way to start a conversation” with such attitude. And my brother offered to buy her a shot and she was like “what am I 16?” And just started arguing. So I just excused myself from the situation and said to myself well maybe I am not ready for this.

 

I’m so sick of people I meet on dating apps telling me they’re not ready for a relationship. At least this time it happened before we actually met up. Like I have it on my profile that I’m looking for something serious, how do I keep ending up in this position

 

Me and my bf have a months long ongoing argument where he swears we've seen Spanish Love Songs live and I'm 100% sure we haven't and it's like an objective fact but here we are

 

wife and I drank a bottle of wine on our patio the other weekend just chillin and listenin to music, first time in forever we just disassociated from everything and caught up with each other while not being distracted. highly recommend

 

I’ve had an influx of people hit me with the first like on hinge this week, which absolutely never happens. By influx I mean like, 3 but still. Way more than usual. And I’m actually pretty interested in two of them. Are things turning around? Will I be back in a few days to lament about driving 300 miles to sleep with my ex? Stay tuned for the next installment of the absolute train wreck that is my personal life

 

It could be worse, dude. Hope you find somebody. My ex killed herself last year, then me and her friend trauma bonded and started sleeping together. I fell in love with her then she left me for another friend. They broke up at the beginning of the year then she tried to get back with me. Now she's dating another dude I know. I moved to Richmond a few months ago and know zero people and have never used a dating site and being a transient train rider for most of my life, I don't think I'm ever gonna find another partner.

 

I found my ex girlfriend’s reddit account. Yes I went looking no I’m not proud of it. I had a feeling about something and I was right. I was being cheated on for the last six months of my relationship at least and lied to over and over again for the last three months it’s been “over.” I’m extremely distraught because she did this once before and I really wanted to believe it wouldn’t happen again.