2 Dating 2 Relationships Thread II: The Squeakquel NSFW • Page 174

Sounds nuts, haha. I guess what I mean is, out of all the girls I ever dated - even my wife - I've never really formally had a first date. Any relationship I've ever been in - or any girl I ever had a fling with or whatever - it all started out as a friendship or organically where we'd see each other out, hang out with friends or whatever. But I've never truly been on like an official first date with anyone. The closest thing I can recall is going out with a girl to a Karaoke night - which is FAR out of my comfort zone - but even then, that girl and I had hung out several times before in a larger, group setting.

I feel like if I ever had to go on a true first date (like first time meeting someone - or first time spending time with someone) i'd be an absolute MESS before, during and after.

 

Yeah man, it was something else and as an introvert, completely out of my comfort zone. But we talked for four hours and laughed, flirted, made out, so I'd say it went well. Excited to see where it goes.

 

This hits a little too close to home right now

 

30 people now and no matches at all

it just wants me to pay for it

 

Happy to hear it went well! It definitely helps to have that reinforcement. We were talking about places near where she lives and she said “we’ll have to go there next time!” which really calmed my nerves haha.

 

What it do

 

This girl is so flirty I love it

 

Met his parents and it was ridic lol. He picked up pizzas per their request which we thought was for dinner (which they eat at 3pm) but then when we got there his parents had made a roast and they wanted to put the pizza hut pizzas in the freezer. He hadn't told them I was a vegetarian because he thought we were just eating the pizzas. His dad said "A vegetarian? Why?" And then talked about how he'd never met one in real life like we're rare unicorns lol. I had salad and his mom asked if I'd like ranch dressing or mayonnaise. MAYONNAISE ON A GARDEN SALAD. His mom talked about how badly white people wrinkle. His dad talked about how the earth has opened up and now supernatural creatures like witches are roaming the earth.

All in all it was amusing lol. He and I got into an argument of sorts on the drive back home which I think is going to be an ongoing discussion and possible dealbreaker tho idk idk

 

lmao

is there any chance his dad was fucking around with you in regards to the witches warlocks stuff? Seems like standard behavior for old white dads to do - embarrass their kids’ by saying wild things to their friends or significant others when first meeting them

if not, go back and please record the conversations and post

 

that dad is probably a dnd player I respect it

 

So my ex’s mom grew up hating salads because her mom used miracle whip on salads cause it was marketed that way back then. Wild that it happened beyond the Midwest lol

 

I’d break up over a 3pm mayo dinner for sure

 

Oh no he was totally serious. He seems a little eccentric. His mom is super cute and sweet but shes Catholic and as a former Catholic I can confidently say we believe in all sorts of nonsense lol

 

Guy is open to learning about feminism and women's studies but has a long way. Calls himself a feminist but in a simplistic "we should all be equal" way. I was trying to talk about power imbalances and he was listening and open minded but struggled with like.... Wider Societal and structural imbalances vs individual experiences. He said I was sexist against men and it's sad he's dating a misandrist. Best compliment I've ever gotten like what kind of catch am I

 

My previous partner and I broke up in August and today we would've made 4 years. Today's going to be rough.

 

Hope it goes by quickly, do something nice for yourself today

 

If it gives you any hope, Cait did a great job implementing feminist beliefs into my life. We had a few shouting matches over things but inevitably she was usually right. Okay she was always right. I also had this site to educate me, however.

My best advice and this may seem obvious but ease into it. I know you have a lot of passion behind it and that's fantastic, but to white dudes, you gotta twist it so you're just giving them considerations on topics rather than saying you need to believe this or fuck off.

 

It was weird cause I didn't want to have any of the conversations actually because I get worked up and passionate easily lol but he was asking me questions and wanted to learn. I actually had him pretty sold but then he talked to a male friend who kind of pulled him back over a bit. It'll be a work in progress. I'm trying to think of a good book to recommend him but I'm blanking

 

I can't stop thinking about this

 

If he ever meets my parents it will be so boring in comparison lol

 

Everyone thinks that haha

 

Best show. Cody Ko is my hero.

 

My girlfriend kicked me and poureeed beer on m m aim sad

 

I’m sad