Told a friend how I felt about her on Saturday. Been feeling like absolute shit since. Couldn't hold it forever, but damn I wish I could have.
mine would probably be when my friend set me up with someone and then we went out for sushi and our waitress ended up being a former tinder hookup who i told "I'm not really looking to date right now" the week prior. Accidentally messed up ordering sushi and the waitress didn't say anything and brought out like 6 plates of sushi for the two of us and I had to ask to split the $80 bill even though I offered to pay earlier that night. I didn't get a second date.
So I'm having trouble figuring out a good way to ask a girl on a date. I was going to just ask "Do you have a date for Valentine's?" and go from there. But you guys said Valentine's would be a bad first date. So now I don't know what to do. There are no events to invite her to in my area because it's freezing cold and nobody wants to be outside more than they have to. Help
I know differences in income has been brought up before. Guy I'm seeing makes a lot less than me. And it doesn't bother me at all. Like I'm self sufficient and pay my own way so what someone else makes isnt rly relevant or a concern. But man do I feel like a tool when I'm like "Yas my chemical romance tickets go on sale this week! Doesn't matter how much they cost! Money is no object for this! I'm going all out!!!" And then later in the day he's like "yeah so I'm donating blood plasma to afford the gas to drive down and see you this weekend"
I think I am unlucky. I seem to match with girls on Tinder especially, but any attempt I make to start a conversation is 99% of the time ignored. I typically try to find something in their profile that is a conversation starter, but maybe I thinking too much about it? I know it's not the be all of end all, and I shouldn't determine my value by dating apps, but I'd be lying if I didn't say it bothers me. Does anyone else feel like this?
That’s just the nature of the beast, a lot of conversations go nowhere or even start. You just got to keep plugging.