I feel like someone could be like "hey you can wear a cool dress and we'll tell each other how cool one another is in front of people we know and there will be food and dancing and then we'll just be together forever and hang out for all time" and I'd be like cool! But then someone could say "hey let's get married" and I'd die
Downloaded Hinge again after two months because meeting people in person is impossible and I hate myself
It's going well. I think we are compatible in lots of ways but not as compatible in others. He's a romantic who knows he wants to someday get married and have kids and use corny pet names and my heart is made of ice lol so we clash there a bit.
He's really nice and caring and I think our personalities and sense of humor aligns well. Like he laughs when I'm weird instead of thinking I'm weird haha. But idk. I think part of me feels like since he's such a romantic that he'd fall for and date anyone who expressed interest. And maybe that's not fair of me to say, because there's nothing wrong with actively looking for a relationship which he definitely has been, but idk. I have a bit of an aversion to it. I'm more of a take things slow kinda person, so if he gets to know me and still feels like he enjoys being around me and wants to date me, then maybe. I guess I want to make sure someone wants to date me and not the idea of me
Take things at whatever speed is comfortable for you. If he’s worth it, he’ll wait and be understanding.
finding someone that you feel comfortable being weird around is the dream. glad things are going well so far.
My girlfriend and I are complete opposites in just about every way. We come from different economic status and it's been a spot of contention for a month or two now. I'm trying really hard to break out of where I am, but she has a lot of doubts about how committed I am to it. I'm heading back to school in the fall, but it's hard to show effort immediately. Not really sure how to show her. That being said, we have made plans for a life together. It's kinda crazy considering we haven't been together a year yet. Life is weird.