I don’t think I’ve ever actually discussed music with any of the women I’ve dated / been in relationships with
When people talk about like a spark and chemistry like are they being for real or are they just trying to get me to buy into an unattainable idea? I feel like I'm supposed to get butterflies and have there be electricity or something and that is just not a thing that happens for me. Like is it normal to not feel that stuff or does that mean it's not the right person? do I have unrealistic expectations because of romantic comedies and Taylor Swift songs? It's so confusing
It’s happened to me a few times but it’s hurt me more than helped cause I don’t see a lot of red flags/aren’t looking for any cause I’m convinced they’re perfect. I’m not as head over heels now which kinda sucks but also has lead to better decisions IMO
I think it's hard because I think like with me personality is important, but Taylor is extra enough that I believe the moment she saw Joe she was like "I didn't know eyes could be that blue"
I mean yeah I deff feel a spark and chemistry like that’s what I would describe the feeling of knowing that it’s romantic and not just friend vibe