Discussion in 'General Forum' started by dylan, May 12, 2019.
too many unicorn hunters out there smh
Are they hot?
she is but she had no pictures of her man. doesn't matter cuz I'm not into it.
Sorry mad that’s like the most annoying thing about being bi or queer on dating apps
Oh no it's gross for sure
Have you thought about lex? It used to be the _personals_ page on instagram and was for queer people and it got big enough that they made it an app. I submitted a request looking for queer friends a few months back and got over 100 responses on the insta alone. I heard the app is good from a friend of mine who is using it.
haven't even heard of lex, I'll have to check it out thanks!
Lex (fka Personals) (@lex.app) • Instagram photos and videos
Link in bio
EDIT: I had a lot of great convos with people on there and can say that it helped move me towards coming out. I imagine if the pool of people is anything like who I met I was very comfortable.
Now I have lex the lexicon artist stuck in my head
This guy's first message to me is that he loves Phoebe Bridgers cause she's my Spotify anthem. How soon is too soon to propose?
Ooof he doesn't like boygenius
Told him to listen to me & my dog again and get back to me. He hasn't gotten back to me so I can only assume he had an epiphany and has died and gone to heaven
how do you like Phoebe but not boygenius... men are such mysteries
right like he loves better Oblivion community center and Phoebe but not boy genius??
Lmao I just had the thought if he listens to similar music he maaaay post here?? If so, listen to Boygenius again tinder man
I’ve never heard of boygenius or even seen them mentioned anywhere on this site tbh but i could have missed any posts / threads about it I guess. Big fan of BOCC though.
@marsupial jones once you listen to boygenius you’ll like them tho
Has anyone in here done couples therapy and have any thoughts on it?
I think my marriage is falling apart, and I don’t know what to do and am not sure when we stopped being on the same team
I'm playing the field! Talking to a few ppl and each kinda appeal to a different side. One seems fairly in touch with emotions and seems very observant. One is super cute and likes the same music. One shares my deadpan sense of humor and cynicism. One is nice and the conversation feels... Easy? If that makes sense. Three of them seem fairly into me and one idk yet. Idk how I feel either. Hard to know without meeting ppl.
i do enjoy Boygenius.
for the record though, there is also a very bad rapper called Boygenius and one of his songs started playing when i selected the wrong "Boygenius" and i was very very confused why a rapper would appeal to fans of Phoebe and BOCC
For those I know that were willing to try it, it helped. I think a major part of the success in trying couple's therapy is how it is presented to the SO. It has to be shown you're thinking of both you and your future, not recommending it because "you're" unhappy with that person. If that makes sense?
my tinder bio song is adore you by harry styles and I expect all the matches now tbh.
Almost changed it to my song too!! I'd swipe right for that song!
I did, ultimately it didn't work out. Honestly, she lied through the whole thing so therapy wasn't ever going to work. I think if both of you go in there, with open and honest communication, it could definitely work.
I stared going just myself and even that helps find some clarity. Best of luck to you.