Jesse West liked Petit nain des Îles's post in the thread Accountability in Music.

So there's something I need to bring up. I vaguely mentioned the situation once, then clarified it to a few users who pm'd me. Everytime I read this thread, it keeps coming back to me. It fucks me up over and over again because I've never done anything about it and thought I would be in the wrong if I did. Back in Spring 2017, I've heard that a post-hardcore band, Adam Kills Eve, was coming to my former college town and playing a free show at a bar. This was unusual, so I quickly checked them out, got into their music, then went to the show. After they were done, they stayed at the merch stand. I chatted with them (mostly one of the guitarists if I recall correctly), just the usual "Thanks for coming, you guys were awesome, how's touring life like" stuff I was able to mumble through my limited English oral skills, and I bought a t-shirt to support them. Afterwards, I mentioned the show on an Instagram post, and the members then added me on socials. Where it starts getting weird is when the drummer, who I'm almost certain I had contact with at the show, went into my dm's to thank me for posting about his band, then he followed it up by, I suppose, flirting with me. He started asking questions about my life but immediately was interested in my sexual orientation. I thought, well fine he must simply be curious as, at the time, I was trying to come out publicly and had mentioned being pansexual in my bio. Perhaps I didn't see his intentions as malicious because his English, like mine, wasn't perfect. I was also planning a YouTube channel where I would post guitar covers, so I told him I wanted to play one of their songs then send it back to him once it's edited and uploaded... and out of nowhere, he replied with this: I think I must have been uncomfortable hence me only coming up with a cringy joke-y answer, putting an end to this awkward conversation. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Thankfully, I don't remember having any more actual interactions with him since. This thread progressively made me reassess all of this, as more bands are called out and problematic situations get brought to light. I deleted him and his band when he liked my latest profile picture change a year later, hoping I would move on for good. However, I didn't and now I realize it has affected me in a few ways as I put two and two together. Like, how I kind of went back into "hiding" my sexuality both irl and slightly less online, as I felt I wasn't ready to be put in a similar place again. I remember not knowing what to do with my Okcupid profile in which I was open about it and suddenly getting messages from queer men, because I was afraid one of them would then act inappropriately. I ghosted everyone and deleted the app after all. I couldn't trust anyone anymore. I've written and deleted many drafts over the past year, but the guilt and the need to get this out of my system overwhelm me anyway. I guess my main point was the confusion over whether this could be perceived as grooming. I feel like a coward for not confronting him and for letting it slide. I guess it didn't occur to me this could happen to anyone. The thought that he could have done the same or worse to others infuriates me. This is getting long, so I'll stop there before I backtrack once again.

JRGComedy liked iCarly Rae Jepsen's post in the thread Album The 1975 - Notes on a Conditional Form (April 24, 2020).

okay this is funny enough I'm not that mad that I have to be reminded this band exists [MEDIA]

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Mustache_Band liked mad's post in the thread Band Spoon.

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CyberInferno replied to the thread Mest Release New Album.

It's really weird...even their new music feels like a time vault for me. I hear "Masquerade", and I'm suddenly watching this band play "Rooftops" at a free show at University of Texas at Dallas back in 2004 or so.

DeathOrGlory replied to the thread Basketball 2019-2020 NBA Season Thread.

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K0ta replied to the thread NSFW General Forum AccountAb1lity Thread.

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waking season liked johnnyferris's post in the thread Album Russian Circles - Blood Year (August 2, 2019).

So cool. I always wish those Far Outs were more songs

DeathOrGlory replied to the thread Video Game Super Smash Bros. Ultimate (Nintendo Switch, December 7th, 2018).

Everyone i What I'm saying is it takes months and months of development to make one character. The extra work it takes to make a skin an echo could be knocked out in a couple days. You underestimate how much development it takes to make one unique character. Also Byleth is a completely unique character. No glorified alt skins have been released as DLC.

DeathOrGlory liked ikanacanyon's post in the thread Video Game Super Smash Bros. Ultimate (Nintendo Switch, December 7th, 2018).

I mean all the DLC characters that people are paying for are unique and not alt skins-echo fighters, right? Because they did some palate swap/skin changes in between base games (in which they added other completely unique characters) doesn’t seem to be taking away from the original fighters they're also releasing. The amount of Fire Emblem echo fighters included is a weak argument for me, because it all feels like bonus content

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flask replied to the thread Album Russian Circles - Blood Year (August 2, 2019).

I want Dave’s big ass brass(?) snare.

Max_123 liked iCarly Rae Jepsen's post in the thread General Politics Discussion (VI).

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iCarly Rae Jepsen replied to the thread Album The 1975 - Notes on a Conditional Form (April 24, 2020).

okay this is funny enough I'm not that mad that I have to be reminded this band exists [MEDIA]

johnnyferris replied to the thread Album Russian Circles - Blood Year (August 2, 2019).

So cool. I always wish those Far Outs were more songs

iCarly Rae Jepsen liked personalmaps's post in the thread Album Halsey - Manic (January 17, 2020).

So I heard a rumor that she had originally submitted the album sans “Without Me” and with “Nightmare” and the label was pretty much like “lol nah do more like WM it is a huge hit” and I’m wondering if the voicemail bit is a tiny tongue in cheek rebellion against having to do that. (If the rumor is true)

flask liked I Am Mick's post in the thread Movie Uncut Gems (Safdie Brothers, December 13, 2019).

I hope we get the Uncut Gems prequel about the Dinosaur who first found the Opal and stared at it or whatever Howard was going on about.

iCarly Rae Jepsen liked EASheartsVinyl's post in the thread Accountability in Music.

That irony has been brought up before to absolutely no avail or self reflection.

Donnie Ruth replied to the thread General Politics Discussion (VI).

Thinking of driving up to Bernie’s town hall in NH tomorrow. Never been to an event like that!

iCarly Rae Jepsen liked Jason Tate's post in the thread Accountability in Music.

26 posts in this thread, not one of them good. I'm at least happy to know his favorite band, or at least username, would hate him as a person.

clockwise replied to the thread Album Best Coast - Always Tomorrow (February 21,2020).

So here for this. I've missed Best Coast!

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Jason Tate replied to the thread Band The Format.

Here’s my regular reminder that people should subscribe to my newsletter at the very least and be supporters of yah want the goods.

sawhney[rusted]2 replied to the thread Album Mura Masa - Mura Masa (July 14,2017).

I’m kind of perplexed about what he was going for on this album. I absolutely adore In My Mind, but everything else seems kind of...nebulous? As if it doesn’t have a specific direction? I’ll, Ill listen to it more to see if If it clicks conceptually

Max_123 liked Dog with a Blog's post in the thread NSFW General Forum AccountAb1lity Thread.

You’re gettin hot and heavy wit yo mans and then he takes off his clothes and you see dis. wyd?

xapplexpiex replied to the thread General Politics Discussion (VI).

I love all Trek, but DS9 and Next Gen are amazing. I just rewatched Best of Both Worlds and it’s a classic.

Dog with a Blog replied to the thread NSFW General Forum AccountAb1lity Thread.

Never even heard of it lol

sawhney[rusted]2 liked username's post in the thread Album Mura Masa - Mura Masa (July 14,2017).

New record is pretty solid. My favourites are the ones with the guests I like (slowthai, Clairo, Tirzah, Georgia) but I find the stuff where he does the vocals kinda fascinating

Dog with a Blog replied to the thread NSFW General Forum AccountAb1lity Thread.

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iCarly Rae Jepsen liked supernovagirl's post in the thread NSFW General Forum AccountAb1lity Thread.

Exactly! And let me tell you they completely made it obvious so they really didn’t need to have the gratuitous graphic scenes like wtf

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Cassadega > Wide awake >lifted Warren 2020

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EASheartsVinyl liked iCarly Rae Jepsen's post in the thread NSFW General Forum AccountAb1lity Thread.

It's so easy to involve it as a plot point without making it graphic and exploitative