maryp1603's Recent Activity
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maryp1603 liked heartchapel's post in the thread Accountability in Music [ARCHIVED].
One of the reasons why it's important to be clear when talking about this is that trans/non binary/ BIPOC have been told over and over "I'm not a racist/bigot/trans/homophobe" again and again by people, while those same people continue to do and say things that actively undermine their statement. Make no mistake, I am not saying that is the case for you Aaron, or for Ian at all, but the "trust me, that's not what I mean" defense has been told to people a million times and isn't one that often stands on its own legs. Sometimes you just wish people could speak what they mean clearly, especially when the trans/non binary community has what they say/do/wear/exist under a microscope for all. Those from the LGBT communities have to hide who they are, police what they say, and ultimately don't get the support, understanding, and love from communities they are a part of, especially if they say something wrong,that their cis gendered peers are generally afforded. Often that responsibility falls back onto the LGBT persons shoulders to parse out and understand what the offender really meant. And this is speaking as a whole in society and not just here or because of what you and Ian posted, but all the weight from previous conversations, politicians, bigots, and hateful family members gets carried with you into every other converaation. It's just something to think about for the future. I appreciate Ian's apology and their true intent. Ill leave it at this: I came here today to hopefully share in the release day of the new LJG album, and seeing the news in this thread about her and her treatment of Paris is heartbreaking enough. May Paris and her kid find safety from LJG, and Paris continue to heal from her traumas before LJG and from LJG.
Jul 18, 2025 at 4:11 PM -
maryp1603 liked Aaron Mook's post in the thread Accountability in Music [ARCHIVED].
Definitely understand posts like the one above while also wanting to reiterate that regular posters know that @iCarly Rae Jepsen of all people definitely did not mean for their post to read the way it has to some folks. Not trying to minimize any emotions, just feel like anyone unfamiliar should know that Ian is a really valuable and well-intentioned poster on this site.
Jul 18, 2025 at 8:30 AM -
maryp1603 liked ItsAndrew's post in the thread Accountability in Music [ARCHIVED].
Also sharing this response she posted:
Jul 17, 2025 at 7:28 PM
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maryp1603 liked morgantayler's post in the thread Accountability in Music [ARCHIVED].
Something positive [MEDIA]
Jul 17, 2025 at 3:16 PM -
maryp1603 liked Matt Chylak's post in the thread Band Julien Baker.
spinning Sprained Ankle tonight... man, she really did something special here.
Jul 17, 2025 at 3:15 PM -
maryp1603 liked Aaron Mook's post in the thread Accountability in Music [ARCHIVED].
Nah we need the occasional good news in this thread for sure.
Jul 13, 2025 at 9:09 AM -
maryp1603 liked Donnie Ruth's post in the thread Accountability in Music [ARCHIVED].
She’s consistently used her platform the right way. Sure it’s not the “correct” thread to post it but whatever, good for her.
Jul 13, 2025 at 9:09 AM -
maryp1603 liked Greg's post in the thread Accountability in Music [ARCHIVED].
Personally, I view the accountability threads to be for when a person says or does something that they should be held accountable for. So, I’d say it doesn’t need to be posted here and could just be posted in an Olivia thread. But there’s also no harm in posting it here. Regardless, Olivia rules.
Jul 13, 2025 at 9:09 AM -
maryp1603 liked wheneyeawoke's post in the thread Accountability in Music [ARCHIVED].
[MEDIA] Olivia continues to lead by example at such a young age. Earlier this week there was a story that came out saying she prioritized the mental health of her band/crew and offered to pay for therapy visits on the road. Not sure if this should be posted in this thread, or just the Guts thread, but impressive stuff from her.
Jul 13, 2025 at 9:08 AM -
maryp1603 replied to the thread Album Phoebe Bridgers - Punisher (June 19, 2020).
Correct answer.
Jul 13, 2025 at 9:08 AM