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Jams liked angrycandy's post in the thread Tiny Things That Annoy You.
sorry to hear that I wish you the best
Nov 1, 2025 at 12:41 PM -
Jams replied to the thread Tiny Things That Annoy You.
I hate my brain so much. I had an outfit I knew I was gonna wear today. Went into the basement bc I knew I just washed it only to realize the load of clothes I washed 3 days ago…..completely forgot to hang them up to dry. I’m like this with everything and it’s so frustrating but I can’t afford to go to a dr so guess I just gotta deal with it.
Nov 1, 2025 at 7:28 AM -
Jams liked rxbandit89's post in the thread Mental Health Thread.
Completely understand where you're coming from. My mom and I have been best friends for my whole life, and she is a wonderful person. But she voted for Trump a third time, and I just can't get past it anymore. I have stopped speaking with her the last few months, and as much as I hate it, I know that the relationship we would have going forward can't be the same as it has been for the last 20 years or so. I could get over that vote in 2016, and even 2020, but that vote in 2024 makes it undeniable that she cannot connect her personal morals, values, and beliefs to actual political positions and policies. She's operating on autopilot and gets very defensive, which makes it impossible to have a real conversation. I don't need that sort of feeling of futility in my life, and it's better that we just don't even try to force a relationship anymore, in my opinion. I know internet friends aren't the same as a familial support system, but know that you aren't alone in any of this.
Nov 1, 2025 at 6:38 AM -
Jams replied to the thread Mental Health Thread.
Feeling overwhelming lonely once again. I was on the phone with my mom and she’s the only family I have with good political views usually. She knows exactly where I stand politically but she thought it was be a good idea to tell me she voted for a republican candidate. Then she got absolutely pissed at me when I got upset about it and she said I always just want to argue and she’s entitled to her own opinions. I said I’m entitled to my own opinions too and it’s my opinion that voting for a man who tried to ban abortion and hates queer people when you have a queer daughter is fucked up!!! Then she hung up on me lol And I get to spend the night at my family Halloween party with her and all my right wing family members tonight. And if they talk politics and I state my view they all gang up on me and scream at me so I usually just sit there and say nothing instead bc I’m just tired of it! And it’s just so lonely bc these are literally the only people I have in my life. Being surrounded by people who actively vote for people who think you should not have rights or basically just deserve to die is awful. I would do absolutely anything to have an actual support system for once in my life!
Oct 31, 2025 at 8:24 AM -
Jams liked angrycandy's post in the thread The Random Thoughts Thread.
today was actually a good day now I'm home and get to sleep in my own bed
Oct 31, 2025 at 5:51 AM